Long crazy story need female advice please!?

hey everybody. I had a situation with this girl we became close friends very close but we ne, we got to be pretty close, lots of people assumed we were together...but i was very shy at the time and never made a move lookingback i def should have.....we got along great.after a while we had our misunderstandings were on and off friends for a while saw other people ,there was always some sexual tension between us...i was very inexperened when we first met , i have a tendency to get protective of her thats where some issues come from, some of her friends i dont really think are good for her, i drink i wont bite my toungue about it...i really cant stop myself sometimes, i would go off and i could see she would be hurt, i feel terrible about doing it...Welli ended up back home afnd we both were single but she wouldnt talk 2 me at the time.....i sent her flowers by deliv and told her i was sorry and that ive had feelings for her...she invited me to come to her birthday party when i saw her and seemed to be happy with me...at her party I got drunk some things i shouldnt have about her friends after another fight a week afterthat which i dont recall...i didnt try talking to her again for 2-3 months later by then she started seeing someone else.I know i said stupid things to her but it was just being protective not really intentionally hurtful your all probably thinkingim nalcholholibut really not,just a little alchohol bring s out my protectiveness of her,i really dont mean it i wish i wasnt like that....so she seeing someone elese i respect that, she saw me at a party after she started seeing him was giving me smiles and seemed like she was following me around but io didnt say much but hi, didnt really try contacting her except on her birthday, never emailed imed or anything......she blocked me on aim months and months after last time i tried talking to her and now she wont accept my facebook request and isnt denying it either just letting it sit there....all her friends also give me strange looks when i see them her close girl friends too not the creeps i was so protective about...your like i did something terrible, i saw her 2 nights ago at the bar, i tried avoiding her she seemed to be around a lot...we made eye contact once and she gave me a smile, she also was standing behind me for a while at the bar,,,why wouldnt she try to avoid me if she hates me enough to block me on aim?? i mean she keeps playing games this has been years and years...shes got a boyfriend shouldnt she be tired of this? if your gonna block me wouldnt you stay the hell away from me?Long crazy story need female advice please!?
It sounds like she's moved on in her life and you're still dwelling in the past. Find a new love interest and cherish what you once had with her. Perhaps use this as a lesson learned as far as your drinking, protectiveness and controlling attitude. She's a big girl and doesn't need another father watching over her. Also, a bar is open to the public. I honestly don't think she went there looking for you. Long crazy story need female advice please!?
Maybe you don't drink alot, but when you do, you say mean things about her friends, and get controlling. NO girl likes that. My advice, quit drinking before it ruins your life, your love life, and possibly your friendships. You cannot pick her friends, she cannot pick yours. Be polite and respectful at ALL times to all of them. Do not drink around her as she already knows what you're like when you do.


I lived with an alcoholic for 13 years, I finally left him. He got mean and verbally abusive every time he drank, and I didn't do Anything to set him off. No woman wants to deal with that kind of crap. Fix yourself if you ever want another chance with her or even someone else. I wish you luck. I would hate to see you turn out like MY ex.