Need some female advice please!?

Well it's a long story so I will try to make it short. I was roommates with a girl. We hit it off. I kinda pushed things. She said she would try us. She then said she needed more time to be single. I found she came out of a 5 year relationship. I moved away. 6 months later we are talking a little more. I'm moving back in December and I get the feeling she is finally starting to get over her ex. Now here is the question. I Love this girl and I want a shot with her, but not sure how I should play it. Should I ask her how she feels and if she says she doesn't feel the same should I just leave. OR Should I play it cool and tell her I still have feeling for her. Let it build up and hang out more with her. I feel as if it is so hard to wait and almost feel that if she tells me now that she doesnt feel the same I need to move on. It's so hard because she is sooo confused. Any advice?Need some female advice please!?
Just stay friend with her for now and let the relationship grow, dont be pushy with her it will just put her off completely. As she was in a five year relationship she may not be looking for anything serious at the moment so be cool. Get to know her first properly do things together but make it on a friendship level then you will know when the time is right to make your move - good luckNeed some female advice please!?
while everyone deserves the space and time to 'consider' before making commitments it is as well in everyone's befit to not unnecessarily delay the process otherwise the whole idea of making decisions and commitments will be defeated.talk to her that while you understand her situation you still have to plan for your future both of you.Playing cool has one disadvantage- while you are lying low she could fall to someones advances.