Attracted to a female friend, she is african american- advice?

I have a female friend, well she works at my job I find her quite attractive, we talk when we see one another, but thats about it. She is single, no kids, and very attractive. Its something about her, that draws me in. I cant really explain it. She is african american and I am caucasian. I have to admit, I am somewhat intimidated to approach her and ask her out. Any adviceAttracted to a female friend, she is african american- advice?
Ask her out. Dont let intimidation sheer you away. She may just be your soul mate, you never know. But I would say approach her after work, and ask her out.





Good LuckAttracted to a female friend, she is african american- advice?
just go for it dude. ask her in a way thats no so ';coming on strong-ish'; bring up a movie and if she likes it and she hasnt seen it, ask her if she would like to go sometime
Well just tell her how you feel about her and she may because more into you. Who knows?
She works with you? Leave her alone!! You're just asking for trouble!!!
as long as she isn't like Britney then go for it! talk to her most likely she won't say anything mean. ps. i like ur name...i found my nubian queen! awwwwwh.








and also, don't listen 2 britney she's just mad cuz noone likes her!
Different Strokes for Different Folks! I'm married to a white woman and I'm Asian so I'm down with the interracial thing.





Go get you some of that Chocolate love'n boy!!!!!!!!!!
You're male; she's female. Aside from the fact that you work together, what's the problem?





I'll say this once again: Black women are.....WOMEN. Just like any other women. The worst thing you can do is treat her like she's ';different';. If you want to ask her out, then ask her out, just like you would any other female that you find attractive (unless you are dorky and you strike out alot). And if she does agree to go out with you, do NOT talk about race. Just be yourself and act normal (i.e. don't drool or embarrass yourself). Good luck.
I think you should invite her to coffee or lunch, and then if that goes well, ask her out on a real date at the end of the coffee/lunch meeting. Try to steer clear of mentioning anything that has to do with race, as a woman of color, I find it very uncomfortable if or when white guys do this, so think of her only as a hot girl that you're attracted to, and if you have any racially related questions that are harmless or innocent, save them for later when you two have gotten to know one another better. I really hope it works out, and have fun!!!
I think if you feel attracted to her, then you should go ahead and let her know how you feel about her. Go slow though..... ask her out to a lunh break at your work (it may seem casual and at the same time seem like one party is interested in the other). I dont think you should be focused on her race.......... Im black and my boyfriend is white, so Im all for you guys. goodluck :-)
Just tell her, and be yourself. I'm sure she already knows... Call it womens intuition.
enjoy
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just treat her like any other woman.





Guage her attraction level...and if you believe she returns your feelings, ask her to a late lunch (perhaps after you leave the office).





I do not think you being Caucasian should factor into her personal decision, so good luck!!