Female friend advice: what did i do wrong?

Hi guys, can you help me here?





I have been close friends with a girl for afew years now and she in the past has given me more than afew reasons to think she liked me and was attracted to me, as i was her. When i met her she was engaged and she soon after had problems with her fiance and was upset about her troubles so she would call my mobile and ask if we could meet up to chat. I acted as like a shoulder to cry on. Even though i fancied her i didnt ever discourage her relationship as i am not that kind of person. Maybe i should have been more up front to get anywhere but hey, its done now. Anyway we would have drinks and chat afew times and she enjoyed my company as i did hers. It took her mind off her problems.





She soon later split up with her fiance and part of me thought heres my chance to tell her i really like her but because it was soon after breaking up with her bf i didnt push it so i never said a thing. I figured i would wait a while and continue going for drinks with herFemale friend advice: what did i do wrong?
Wait a while but not too long. U dont want her hooking up w/ someone else.Female friend advice: what did i do wrong?
is there part of the question missing? im not getting why you think you did something wrong





the rest of the question is there now!


ok i think you were just a friend plain and simple she didnt see you in anyway other than that you let her cry on your shoulder and she did but then found a new love unfortunately in that process you got trampled on maybe you should have let her know you felt for her more than a friend but now you missed the boat sorry
look, this girl just split up with her fiance so obviously she liked him a LOT. BUT she also could like you. You should get really close with her, but don't push anything. Just say one day camly something like, you know, I've liked you for a while... and I realize that you just broke up with your fiance... but just remember that I'll always be here for you even if you dont like me the same way.
She's played you,you sound like a decent person she obviously isn't,she wasn't attracted to you as you were to her.So when this other guy came along she must of fancied him to drop you like that,not a very nice person you are better off with out her and deserving of a decent woman.
I don't think you did anything wrong. She's probably going to be really upset and hurt after her break-up, and I very much doubt that she's even thinking of a new relationship. Just be the friend you've always been and don't push anything - it'll be far too soon for her
Don't wait,act now . be her someone to talk to she might be touched by you
No u dont deserve 2 b treated in this way, but u have been used mate so get over it. u were there 2 make her feel good about herself, u didnt need 2 express how u felt , she would have picked up on that straight away. u were never going 2b picked up on her radar.
good decision............but dont wait too long.............. esp if shes a good hunter!
You didn't do anything wrong. She does need some space since she split with her fiance. Just give her some time, but not too much. If you still have strong feelings for her, then go for it!! But, if things have changed and you just see her as your friend, then just keep on hanging out and with her. Be her shoulder to cry on, that's what most women want and need sometimes!! Hope this helps!
have you thought along the lines that its not her but her new guy being jellous of youre friendship and dosent want her to have any contact with you and im guessing it has nothing to do with you or wot u did its just ya male and seen as a threat by the new guy
Give it time and see where it goes from here. The end of her relationship is too new still. Give her breathing space. And just take it as it comes.
give her time,she must like u,if not she wont have been telling you all her problems,i am talking from experience,its being 3 years now and we her still together
It sounds like you did completely the right thing in respecting her and not causing problems by telling her about your feelings when she was with her fiancee, and also just after they broke up. well done for that. as for her cutting you out of her life, it sounds like perhaps this new guy has had a bit of a problem with the fact you two were so close, and maybe got struck with jealousy. If you still want to be friends with her then you should definitely confront her about it. simply just ask her if you have done something wrong for her to act this way as you really miss your friendship. if she says that she no longer wants to be friends with you then you are far better off without her. you sound like a genuinely nice person and you will find a person more suited to you who will respect you, care for you and treat you the way you deserve. good luck!