Female Needing a little advice from you guys?

i am 26 years old and i have been engaged for 2 months my fiancee is 32 and he was married before and is now divorced, he tells me some stuff from his ex and i tell him some stuff from my ex, one day i asked him how old is she and he said she is 31, and this was about a month ago that i asked him and i found out yesterday that she was born 1983, she is 25 a year younger that me. Any idea of why he would lie about something so small? its really bothering i cant ask him because he went away and i wont see him until sundayFemale Needing a little advice from you guys?
I dont think him forgetting or telling you a different age for his ex is a big deal. Their really isnt any reason as to why it should matter in your relastionship. You guys are talking about ex's here...they are ex's for a reason. I think you should just let it go and just forget about it...trust me..its not worth getting in an argument over.





CheersFemale Needing a little advice from you guys?
Possibly to try and avoid the situation of you feeling insecure if you knew that he had gone out with someone younger than you?


It's not uncommon for us guys to lie about details, or skip over details, to not inadvertantly tick off our ladies with little things we wouldn't usually consider a big deal, but we know could set off unwanted arguments.
Best thing to do is ask, you's are engaged so he loves you and wont have any problem answering any questions you have or anything else you are worrying about, also you have to know for sure that she was born in 1983 maybe your source is lien, you don't want to accuse him of lien when he is not.
Guys aren't the best at remembering the kinds of details that women kinda take for granted. Like... he doesn't' remember your birth date or the anniversary of your meeting. In keeping with that, he truly... probably... doesn't remember how old his ex is. She's history, you're the future. You can make a big thing about this or not.





I don't think i would. Know what i mean???
Mybe he was talking about another ex gf, could be a number of reasons, but be best to just come out and ask him, it is a legitimate concern since he said 31 and its actually 25.


Need get it out in the open so there's no secrets you know..
Hi, ana


I have forgotten actual birth dates answered quickly and incorrectly before or he may be stupid, and does not know how to add.


she is an ex wife or late wife? just kidding.


you should know if his memory is bad, maybe you can test him with his family bd's.
I don't know probably he wanted u feel like ur the youngest he ever had.Does it in someway change ur outlook on him in a way that it wasn't a older woman he divorce with but a woman that is really a year younger then u.They say age don't matter but at times it does.
I think he is trying to make you feel good about your age.Ya know-saying you are younger than her and you don't have anything to worry about in that category.That's the only thing I can think of,anyway.
Well... i'm not being funny but he probly doesn't like to talk about his ex with you, you should move on and forget about his past relationships and focus on your own !!


Hope i helped,


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This is one of those BIG RED FLAGS that SHOULD have you wondering if you should marry this liar or not!
First, per Dr. Drew (Love Line), Don't discuss ex-'s; ever. Things like this happen, and then people's feelings get hurt. Accept he had a past without you. It didn't involve you. That relationship no longer exists and you are now the important part of his life. The past is the past and nothing can change it, so don't dwell on it.





Secondly, it could be that he didn't want to make you self conscious or feel you had to worry about competition. This is pure speculation, but if you love him and trust him, this is pretty small. Think about the many other major issues he could have lied about, and take some solace in that this won't be the end of the world.





If you're still concerned, I refer you to the first answer.