Im really good friends with this guy i know through college!!we've also been working together for the past 4 months. Im single and he has a girlfriend of over 2 years!I've only ever met her once (cos he lives ina diff part of de country) and she's lovely.
U see the problem is I really like him,more than i've evr liked anybody else. we are both unbelievably honest with each other and he knows how i feel abt him. any time we go out he tries it on wit me and wants me to kiss him but i won't because of his gf. Then the next morning he always apoligises for his behavior. him and his gf recently broke up for a short time (nothing happened between me and him durin this) but through it all it was always me he turned to for a ';sholder to cry on';!
Its just killin me knowing that i cant be with him!All advice, male %26amp; female, welcome???Whats goin on??
go for it. you guys are so lucky to have eachother.
if you guys are that ggod friends and he tries to be with you
i guess jjust let him. He apologizes in the morning because he thinks you dont like him for love.
now that him and his girlfriend are over?, well it gives you some freedom. you seem like a great friend and same for him. if you get in a relationship, you will just click, and it will be a good one!
also, you two are close together, him and his girlfriend live miles away.
it will be a smoother and happier relationship.
good luck and enjoy.All advice, male %26amp; female, welcome???Whats goin on??
I say go for it. It sounds like you and him have a rare bond. The relationships that work the best are friends frist then lovers. Talk to him. Make sure it's what he wants. If he wants to drop her for you dont worry about her. Only look out for #1 you!!!! You might be missin out on true love.
So find a guy you can be with!
You'll always be friends with this guy, just friends, but if you're looking for a relationship, keep looking. It's not that difficult!
Thats quite a story you got there. Well if he already has a gf then maybe you should ask him how he feels about her. After all for he might not like her as much as he likes you. Other things you mentioned was that he looks for support from you right? Well that either a sign of true friendship or true love.
Why can't you be with him? He gets on much better with you than his own gf thats got to mean something!!! give it sometime or admit your true feelings I bet you he would feel the same way.
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