Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I need advice froma female!!!?

Me and my wife are trying to spice up our sex life. I am only 18 and I dont know much, What are some things I can do for her to make her satisfied???I need advice froma female!!!?
IM me %26amp; we can talk about it. Getting into it here will give every little 15 yr old boy something to stroke to.I need advice froma female!!!?
Need to think of a way to spice up sex life at 18 years old only?





How old you have your first sex?





Just wonder you are getting bored of your sex life or your wife?
I think that you can get lots of good ';spicy'; ideas from porn. Find one that you can watch together and maybe get some ';positioning'; ideas from. Also, toys can be really fun, and sexy outfits.





Remember, everyone has a different idea of what is ';good'; and what is ';bad'; when it comes to sex, so you really need to communicate with your partner if you want to make things good.





One thing that I like personally is a guy who ';takes charge'; a little in bed...that's really sexy. You don't have to be confident, just act the part and the rest will come naturally.
gosh if you're bored at 18, you have a looooong 60 years ahead of you!!!!!


Seriously....just communicate well with her....discuss your fantasies....ask about hers....suggest a few ideas and see if anything appeals to her.....have a giggle, and a glass of wine....and see what happens........


Good luck.
Depends on what she is into...





As far as romance...light candles, get her a sexy new outfit, put on some music, give her a massage...





As far as more 'edgy'...take her to a couples shop, like 'Hustler', get her a 'themed' outfit (nurse, schoolgirl, etc.), try something new in the bedroom...or try taking her to a stripclub...if she would enjoy that





Either way...HAVE FUN!
Ask her if she would like to experiment with you. Then decide together as a couple what both of you would like to do. I don't know how much experience your wife has, but a lot of young females don't understand their own bodies enough to talk with their partners about what they want. A lot of women require stimulation orally or manually to reach orgasm. Take your time, relax and make it a point to have fun with this. And if you're willing to get some outside suggestions, get the book ';101 Nights to Grrreat Sex.'; Amazon has it, and I would imagine it's available in local book stores. Fun book!
Why are you having to spice it up at 18? Just curious. Your libido should be on turbo and screwing like rabbits!





You need to be asking her what makes her feel good and what satisfies her, not strangers. :0)





Talk out your fantasies together and take it from there.
Thats what porn is for. Take a look and get some ideas.
Buy her some toys and some videos-she'll be able to use the toys to show you what she likes, and the videos will give you some ideas on new things to try.
My goodness sounds like you need to read the 'karma-sutra' if you're only 18 %26amp; wanting to spice things up already. Firstly, women do not automatically want sex if they happen to kiss their husband, hold their hand or just want to lie cuddled together in bed.





Buy her some nice lingerie, flowers, if she works send her a text message @ lunch time saying you can't wait to see her tonight etc. Put a note in her lunch box. Stick a post it note on the bathroom mirror saying 'I love you'. Run a hot bath surrounded by candles have some nice music playing. Take her for a romantic dinner (doesn't matter if it's a picnic in yr lounge room). Hide a surprise somewhere in yr home %26amp; leave notes for her to follow like a paper trail till she finds the surprise. Put a bottle of wine on ice, turn the TV off %26amp; yr cell phones also put yr answering machine on %26amp; have some ';couple's time';.





It's the little acts of kindness that are more of a turn on than anything you could buy her. Good luck
There's no way in hell you'd be looking for ways to ';spice it up'; at 18.





C'mon folks, this is a first timer looking for pointers.

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