I went out with a girl a couple of times last summer but because of some missed communication we stopped seeing each other. I then saw her over Christmas randomly and called her a few days later to ask her out but she was seeing someone. I would like to see if she is still seeing someone. Would it be reasonable to call, text, facebook her, or is it a bad idea altogether. I kinda feel as though she would have called me if she had become single or was at all interested, but you never know. Part of my concern as well is that the last time I called her she was seeing someone, so I dont want it to seem as if I dont respect that, but there is no other way of finding out if she is seeing someone. What should I do? Serious Advice only please.Female Dating Advice Please: Calling a girl?
Send her a message on facebook...kind of a ';long time no see, just checkin in with you to see how you're doing'; type of message. If she responds, then she at least still wants to be friends. Then you can go from there. If she doesn't, leave it alone.
Monday, August 23, 2010
20 young female needs advice on where to move!!?
i grew up in texas, and i moved to austin after i graduated. i recently had to come back to where i'm from due to to having a bit too much fun in austin. soo i'm planning on moving somewhere within the next year.
i like the outdoors, nature, and upbeat hip atmosphere. i also like riding my bike. shopping is good too :)
i have a few places narrowed down, let me know what you think!
--st. paul, MN (1st choice)
--dallas, TX (safe bet, but i really want to get out of texas!)
--san francisco, CA (kinda expensive)
--denver, CO
tips? suggestions? anything? thank you
xo20 young female needs advice on where to move!!?
Find a rich guy with a yacht and go to the Caribbean.20 young female needs advice on where to move!!?
You described Portland Oregon.
Biggest city Park (Forest Park, google it)
Most bikes per capita. And very bike friendly.
There is is hipster problem.
2 hour drive to mountains or beach.
And you can get an apartment for $400.
it has one of the highest concentrations of young people in America. The whole city is like highschool.
Australia
any wheere except north carolina im hating it
If there are 20 of you, you should try Neveda or somewhere where its legal.
mn sucks .try denver
My house?
^^Bronx.. you'll fit in their don't worry..
i like the outdoors, nature, and upbeat hip atmosphere. i also like riding my bike. shopping is good too :)
i have a few places narrowed down, let me know what you think!
--st. paul, MN (1st choice)
--dallas, TX (safe bet, but i really want to get out of texas!)
--san francisco, CA (kinda expensive)
--denver, CO
tips? suggestions? anything? thank you
xo20 young female needs advice on where to move!!?
Find a rich guy with a yacht and go to the Caribbean.20 young female needs advice on where to move!!?
You described Portland Oregon.
Biggest city Park (Forest Park, google it)
Most bikes per capita. And very bike friendly.
There is is hipster problem.
2 hour drive to mountains or beach.
And you can get an apartment for $400.
it has one of the highest concentrations of young people in America. The whole city is like highschool.
Australia
any wheere except north carolina im hating it
If there are 20 of you, you should try Neveda or somewhere where its legal.
mn sucks .try denver
My house?
^^Bronx.. you'll fit in their don't worry..
Female's advice about body issues?
I know how girls my age are always complaining about their bodies and everything but its hard not to compare oneself to what the media says is attractive.
So, I'm about 5'3'; and I weigh somewhere between 95-100 lbs. I know I'm not obese or really anywhere near there but I wish I could be more around 90 lbs. And I think my thighs are too fat also. So I don't eat much and often skip meals. I don't feel hungry though so its not as if I'm harming myself. I also exercise. This has become my lifestyle and I never feel crappy or anything. The problem for me is that I'm not losing weight. And the bigger problem is that this bothers me so much.
I see these anorexic stars on television and in magazines and while most people are saying ';Ew, that's disgusting'; or ';That's so sad';, I'm wishing I could look like that and I'm mad at myself for not having the will-power to become like them.
I scare myself though. I know that isn't right. I know I shouldn't envy their sickly figures but I really do. I need help but I really, really don't want to gain any weight or anything.
I don't know what to do.
Could a female who has this issue currently or used to have it but overcame it please answer. I'm sorry I don't have a specific question. I just need advice...
And people, please don't make fun of me. I know this sounds ridiculous. Being a jerk won't make me less neurotic.Female's advice about body issues?
Honestly, you are right, you are being COMPLETELY redonkulous. You do not need to loose any weight. You should EAT! You are not fat. You weight is perfect, and not only that you are SKINNY! Stop skipping meals, keep exercising to be healthy, and stop wanting to loose weight. Even comparing yourself to the ';media'; you aren't fat. Also, everyone thinks that they have fat thighs. You know what? Nobody does. If every ones thighs were as big as their calf's, it would just look WEIRD. So, stop worrying and start living your life and not caring about what people think about you. So many people in this world would kill to be as skinny and thin as you, and loosing any additional weight isn't necessary, needed, or recommended. So stop worrying!!!!Female's advice about body issues?
90 sounds great. I'm 5'6'; and 102 lb.
i feel the same. you sound really skinny tho. like im 5'5'' and last time i checked my weight (which was february 2008 :P) i was like around 113 lbs but ive been on a diet since then and ive lost loads of weight. what ive been doin is i usally have like a small bowl of cereal b4 skewl or else i jus skip breakfast then i dont eat in skewl which is over at 4 then i have dinner and i try not to eat to much then after that. but dont try that coz it doesnt work that only made me eat more because i got soo hungry during skewl that id scoff when i came home. now i try do at least 30 mins on the excercise bike and i usually dont eat that much just try to drink alot ha. totally off thrack here i dont really no what you want to hear so i just talked about my own life sorry :)
first of all this is not a healthy thing to be doing to you body at all! secondly you aren't losing and weight because when you skip meals and what not when you do eat your body will store as much as it can from the food that you eat because your body needs the energy and by you not eating your body isn't getting the needed energy. You should try talking to your doctor and finding a healthy way to loose weight not that you need to you are more then likely below a healthy weight for your age and height.
Oh sweetie I wish I could give you a hug! I'm 28 and I still deal with these issues - so trust me, unless you can snap out of it and gain some confidence, this will always be something that will own you. It's a horrible feeling to compare yourself to others... and it only gets harder as you get older.
In the past year, I've figured out how to lose weight myself. Step 1: EAT. Skipping meals isn't going to help you; in fact, it will only make you gain more weight when you do eat. Your body needs so many nutrients and calories/day so when you skip a meal, your body holds as much fat as possible at your next meal to get it through until your next meal. Step 2: Go see a nutritionist. They're expensive, but I think it's something you would really get a lot of use from. They will help figure out a good meal plan for you, and will keep you healthy. Step 3: Eat healthy. When you skip breakfast/lunch, then eat supper and have a big dessert, your body stores the dessert fats. So eat a healthy breakfast (granola %26amp; yogurt), have a snack at 10am (carrots/peas), a good lunch (salad/veggies/fruit/etc), a snack at 2:30pm (granola bar or some grapes) then a healthy supper. If you crave sweets, pick 1 day/week you want them - like Friday.
Stay healthy and keep working out. Just another note: if you keep working out but not eating, you're really not doing anything for yourself - you're only making your body more tired and sick.
Good luck!
So, I'm about 5'3'; and I weigh somewhere between 95-100 lbs. I know I'm not obese or really anywhere near there but I wish I could be more around 90 lbs. And I think my thighs are too fat also. So I don't eat much and often skip meals. I don't feel hungry though so its not as if I'm harming myself. I also exercise. This has become my lifestyle and I never feel crappy or anything. The problem for me is that I'm not losing weight. And the bigger problem is that this bothers me so much.
I see these anorexic stars on television and in magazines and while most people are saying ';Ew, that's disgusting'; or ';That's so sad';, I'm wishing I could look like that and I'm mad at myself for not having the will-power to become like them.
I scare myself though. I know that isn't right. I know I shouldn't envy their sickly figures but I really do. I need help but I really, really don't want to gain any weight or anything.
I don't know what to do.
Could a female who has this issue currently or used to have it but overcame it please answer. I'm sorry I don't have a specific question. I just need advice...
And people, please don't make fun of me. I know this sounds ridiculous. Being a jerk won't make me less neurotic.Female's advice about body issues?
Honestly, you are right, you are being COMPLETELY redonkulous. You do not need to loose any weight. You should EAT! You are not fat. You weight is perfect, and not only that you are SKINNY! Stop skipping meals, keep exercising to be healthy, and stop wanting to loose weight. Even comparing yourself to the ';media'; you aren't fat. Also, everyone thinks that they have fat thighs. You know what? Nobody does. If every ones thighs were as big as their calf's, it would just look WEIRD. So, stop worrying and start living your life and not caring about what people think about you. So many people in this world would kill to be as skinny and thin as you, and loosing any additional weight isn't necessary, needed, or recommended. So stop worrying!!!!Female's advice about body issues?
90 sounds great. I'm 5'6'; and 102 lb.
i feel the same. you sound really skinny tho. like im 5'5'' and last time i checked my weight (which was february 2008 :P) i was like around 113 lbs but ive been on a diet since then and ive lost loads of weight. what ive been doin is i usally have like a small bowl of cereal b4 skewl or else i jus skip breakfast then i dont eat in skewl which is over at 4 then i have dinner and i try not to eat to much then after that. but dont try that coz it doesnt work that only made me eat more because i got soo hungry during skewl that id scoff when i came home. now i try do at least 30 mins on the excercise bike and i usually dont eat that much just try to drink alot ha. totally off thrack here i dont really no what you want to hear so i just talked about my own life sorry :)
first of all this is not a healthy thing to be doing to you body at all! secondly you aren't losing and weight because when you skip meals and what not when you do eat your body will store as much as it can from the food that you eat because your body needs the energy and by you not eating your body isn't getting the needed energy. You should try talking to your doctor and finding a healthy way to loose weight not that you need to you are more then likely below a healthy weight for your age and height.
Oh sweetie I wish I could give you a hug! I'm 28 and I still deal with these issues - so trust me, unless you can snap out of it and gain some confidence, this will always be something that will own you. It's a horrible feeling to compare yourself to others... and it only gets harder as you get older.
In the past year, I've figured out how to lose weight myself. Step 1: EAT. Skipping meals isn't going to help you; in fact, it will only make you gain more weight when you do eat. Your body needs so many nutrients and calories/day so when you skip a meal, your body holds as much fat as possible at your next meal to get it through until your next meal. Step 2: Go see a nutritionist. They're expensive, but I think it's something you would really get a lot of use from. They will help figure out a good meal plan for you, and will keep you healthy. Step 3: Eat healthy. When you skip breakfast/lunch, then eat supper and have a big dessert, your body stores the dessert fats. So eat a healthy breakfast (granola %26amp; yogurt), have a snack at 10am (carrots/peas), a good lunch (salad/veggies/fruit/etc), a snack at 2:30pm (granola bar or some grapes) then a healthy supper. If you crave sweets, pick 1 day/week you want them - like Friday.
Stay healthy and keep working out. Just another note: if you keep working out but not eating, you're really not doing anything for yourself - you're only making your body more tired and sick.
Good luck!
Female situation, advice?
I had a massive crush on a colleague of mine Jill, but I thought she was straight and not interested in me, even though she did seem to flirt and give hints that she did. My interest wained of her a bit when we started to argue over petty things. I became really friendly recently with another colleague who is just brilliant, she makes me laugh, totally gets me and makes me feel great about myself, whereas Jill would sometimes belittle me and make me feel down.
I told Jill that myself and Caroline were going on a night out and she said ';You and Caroline are big buds are you not'; in a really sarcastic way. I was driving Caroline home and Jill asked the next day how the night went and if I took Caroline home. She then started to be really offhand and quite nasty to Caroline and sort of made a fool of her in front of me. Caroline jokingly said something to me and Jill seemed to take offense and said to her ';Dont talk to MY Madina like that';. Does it sound like Jill is jealous?Female situation, advice?
Jill is no friend of yours ........ or anyone ............ I would quit having any to do w/ jill and focus your attention on CarolineFemale situation, advice?
jill is jelaous
Woah. Sounds like someone is jealous. And into you.
Thats pretty hot. You need to talk to her though =]
I told Jill that myself and Caroline were going on a night out and she said ';You and Caroline are big buds are you not'; in a really sarcastic way. I was driving Caroline home and Jill asked the next day how the night went and if I took Caroline home. She then started to be really offhand and quite nasty to Caroline and sort of made a fool of her in front of me. Caroline jokingly said something to me and Jill seemed to take offense and said to her ';Dont talk to MY Madina like that';. Does it sound like Jill is jealous?Female situation, advice?
Jill is no friend of yours ........ or anyone ............ I would quit having any to do w/ jill and focus your attention on CarolineFemale situation, advice?
jill is jelaous
Woah. Sounds like someone is jealous. And into you.
Thats pretty hot. You need to talk to her though =]
Female escort advice?
I have my first booking! I'm off to meet some man tomorrow night at a hotel. Does anyone have any tips, or wish to air their views on this subject?Female escort advice?
Be extremely careful and let a friend or family member know the person's name you're gonna meet and where the meeting will take place. If possible have someone you know at the meeting place before you get there to monitor you guys. This is a very dangerous thing to do in this day and time.Female escort advice?
low life!
go and get a real job you loser!
and i also think the male escort is a low life, so stop trying to single yourself out just because your female! (hopefully you'll catch crabs)
Gee and yesterday, you had your first booking with a woman at a hotel...except you were a man. Nice job, Troll.
Don't even think of going - your life is worth a lot more than a few bucks!
Good luck!
Bring condoms!
Way to look for nasty comments! Get a life!
boo
Be extremely careful and let a friend or family member know the person's name you're gonna meet and where the meeting will take place. If possible have someone you know at the meeting place before you get there to monitor you guys. This is a very dangerous thing to do in this day and time.Female escort advice?
low life!
go and get a real job you loser!
and i also think the male escort is a low life, so stop trying to single yourself out just because your female! (hopefully you'll catch crabs)
Gee and yesterday, you had your first booking with a woman at a hotel...except you were a man. Nice job, Troll.
Don't even think of going - your life is worth a lot more than a few bucks!
Good luck!
Bring condoms!
Way to look for nasty comments! Get a life!
boo
My husband wants me to have a fling with a female, any advice. I am curious. Would it ruin our relationship?
Why does he want you to do that? Does he want to watch? This sounds very odd to me. Would you want him to have a ';fling'; with a gay man?
Unless you are prepared for unpleasant repercussions, tell him to put the idea where the sun does not shine.
Rose P.My husband wants me to have a fling with a female, any advice. I am curious. Would it ruin our relationship?
Hi, There are a couple of ';key'; words in your statement... Your husband ';WANTS'; you to have a fling with a female.
That's okay for him, but WHAT ABOUT YOU...? Is this what you WANT..?
And you said You are curious... As to what..? Whether it would ruin your relationship or curious about being with another female.
Regardless of how close'; your relationship is, don't get ';pushed'; into something you don't want to be involved in, but if your curious about the situation with another female, then it would appear as though you can see the possibilities to all of this..
Do think it all through very thoroughly - a night's excitement may not work out all in your favour in the long run...
Good luck in your decision..
Regards,
Rachelle In High HeelsMy husband wants me to have a fling with a female, any advice. I am curious. Would it ruin our relationship?
It all depends on how stable your relationship is. If you are both not 100% on board with it you would be well advised not to. My wife and I have done this and we have not had any major problems other than the occasional bout of jealousy (not just on her side but on mine). The first thing you need to do is ALOT of talking. Talk about your concerns and be open and honest with each other. Don't hold back on any questions, just let it rip. The most important thing is communication. Not just with him, but with her. The last thing you want to do is make her mad, because that could be a wedge driven between you and your husband. Hope this answer helped. BTW, we've been married 15 years as a testimony.
Randy
yea, I think that it would ruin your relationship. He may think it won't and you may wonder if it will but it will. in less its a one night 3some a fling with someones else ruins relationships.
well if your husband may be open enough to not get jealous. that would be cool.....but what if you started to like your female friend more than your husband? Just some things to think about.......
I think that it would ruin your relationship. plus I just don't get it why people want to do that.
So...President Bush is a genetic success?
Yes I'm sure he does....that is the ultimate guy fantasy.smokey eye
Unless you are prepared for unpleasant repercussions, tell him to put the idea where the sun does not shine.
Rose P.My husband wants me to have a fling with a female, any advice. I am curious. Would it ruin our relationship?
Hi, There are a couple of ';key'; words in your statement... Your husband ';WANTS'; you to have a fling with a female.
That's okay for him, but WHAT ABOUT YOU...? Is this what you WANT..?
And you said You are curious... As to what..? Whether it would ruin your relationship or curious about being with another female.
Regardless of how close'; your relationship is, don't get ';pushed'; into something you don't want to be involved in, but if your curious about the situation with another female, then it would appear as though you can see the possibilities to all of this..
Do think it all through very thoroughly - a night's excitement may not work out all in your favour in the long run...
Good luck in your decision..
Regards,
Rachelle In High HeelsMy husband wants me to have a fling with a female, any advice. I am curious. Would it ruin our relationship?
It all depends on how stable your relationship is. If you are both not 100% on board with it you would be well advised not to. My wife and I have done this and we have not had any major problems other than the occasional bout of jealousy (not just on her side but on mine). The first thing you need to do is ALOT of talking. Talk about your concerns and be open and honest with each other. Don't hold back on any questions, just let it rip. The most important thing is communication. Not just with him, but with her. The last thing you want to do is make her mad, because that could be a wedge driven between you and your husband. Hope this answer helped. BTW, we've been married 15 years as a testimony.
Randy
yea, I think that it would ruin your relationship. He may think it won't and you may wonder if it will but it will. in less its a one night 3some a fling with someones else ruins relationships.
well if your husband may be open enough to not get jealous. that would be cool.....but what if you started to like your female friend more than your husband? Just some things to think about.......
I think that it would ruin your relationship. plus I just don't get it why people want to do that.
So...President Bush is a genetic success?
Yes I'm sure he does....that is the ultimate guy fantasy.
What about love in between libran male with aries female. pls advice?
When Libra, the Scales, first meets Aries, the Ram, attraction glitters in the air. Charming Venus (your life-ruler) encounters energetic Mars, the passionate ruler of the Ram. That Venus smile of yours engages the ready willingness of Mars - and a fuse is lit for fireworks in the bedroom!
The key to this encounter is that while you're wondering how it will work and where it will go and whether you should, the Ram is ready for action. This is half the attraction. This decisive creature is fascinating and magnetic and you'll be swept along by the Ram's delight in discovering you. But will this last?
Both of you are romantics. But where your natural ideal is achieved through harmony, the Ram boldly overcomes opposition to possess his heart's desire. At first, you'll love the Ram's independence and flair. However, in time, if you want to maintain the peace, you'll have to forgive many peccadilloes born of haste or impatience. Can the Ram learn to say 'sorry' without losing the naive charm and initiative you love? Hmmm. Something to ponder on.
Aries, a Fire Sign, finds your elegant style fascinating, but may interpret your love of cooperation as interest, since Rams believe they are the most interesting things in the world. Fire signs personalize experience and see the 'self' as the centre. Show your Ram that you see many things outside you as interesting and it is your job to weigh them up.
You each love drama and have passionate concerns. On this roller-coaster ride, the Ram's impulses may clash with your need to ponder. You enjoy examining your options at length, but the Ram is ready to take a wrong track, then put it right rather than wait. Rams have little sympathy with the agony of indecision. You, on the other hand, will find Ram's rashness wearing. You can be powerful allies if you work out a mutual process, but if you don't, you will rarely agree on how to tackle anything.
Aries and Libra are Cardinal Signs, so your Ram will have to learn to give in now and then or pay a price. Mutual effort at domestic harmony will be essential, as you love debate but don't care for conflict. Guide your Ram from the field of battle to the negotiation table. This can be an exciting match if you learn to rely on each other. Without such reliance, your Fire and Air will flash like a Roman Candle, then fizzle out.What about love in between libran male with aries female. pls advice?
Aries can have a very positive effect on Libra's growth, ideas and progress; Aries can help Libra put their ideas into action. Working together can be challenging at times, however, due to their polarity. Aries's fast-paced, impetuous approach to projects may conflict with Libra's more balanced, intellectual approach. However, both Signs have wide-ranging interests, and at the end of a long, active day, Aries can come home full of interesting stories to tell the more cerebral Libra!What about love in between libran male with aries female. pls advice?
It is said that you are most compatable with your opposite on the horoscope scale. So for libra and Aries.. they are the best compatable.
ARIES %26amp; LIBRA
This is a magnificent combination. The warm and passionate Libra will make a welcome home for the fiery and impetuous Aries. This will be particularly true if both individuals are on the same cultural and intellectual plane. However, this could be a poor match if either is from a culture or religion varying from the other.
Aries appreciates the passion and emotion that Librans possess, but too much of a good thing could spoil the relationship. There must be balance for this combination to work. There is a wider than ordinary margin for error though and most of these pairings will go the distance. Libra's refined and artistic temperament yearns for reciprocal attachments. This is something Aries can provide. There is a powerful initial attraction between these two opposites because, in certain areas, each supplies what the other lacks. For one, the aggressive nature of Aries will arouse Libra's sensual potential. The love life between these two may be unconventional, however, since Libra really desires peace, quiet and harmony ...unlike Aries, who wants action and adventure.
Both individuals are fond of the social life, entertaining and pleasure, but both are restless, albeit in different ways. In time, Libra could search for someone less demanding while Aries seeks out someone more adoring. This combination makes for a marvelous affair but not always a good marriage.
The key to this encounter is that while you're wondering how it will work and where it will go and whether you should, the Ram is ready for action. This is half the attraction. This decisive creature is fascinating and magnetic and you'll be swept along by the Ram's delight in discovering you. But will this last?
Both of you are romantics. But where your natural ideal is achieved through harmony, the Ram boldly overcomes opposition to possess his heart's desire. At first, you'll love the Ram's independence and flair. However, in time, if you want to maintain the peace, you'll have to forgive many peccadilloes born of haste or impatience. Can the Ram learn to say 'sorry' without losing the naive charm and initiative you love? Hmmm. Something to ponder on.
Aries, a Fire Sign, finds your elegant style fascinating, but may interpret your love of cooperation as interest, since Rams believe they are the most interesting things in the world. Fire signs personalize experience and see the 'self' as the centre. Show your Ram that you see many things outside you as interesting and it is your job to weigh them up.
You each love drama and have passionate concerns. On this roller-coaster ride, the Ram's impulses may clash with your need to ponder. You enjoy examining your options at length, but the Ram is ready to take a wrong track, then put it right rather than wait. Rams have little sympathy with the agony of indecision. You, on the other hand, will find Ram's rashness wearing. You can be powerful allies if you work out a mutual process, but if you don't, you will rarely agree on how to tackle anything.
Aries and Libra are Cardinal Signs, so your Ram will have to learn to give in now and then or pay a price. Mutual effort at domestic harmony will be essential, as you love debate but don't care for conflict. Guide your Ram from the field of battle to the negotiation table. This can be an exciting match if you learn to rely on each other. Without such reliance, your Fire and Air will flash like a Roman Candle, then fizzle out.What about love in between libran male with aries female. pls advice?
Aries can have a very positive effect on Libra's growth, ideas and progress; Aries can help Libra put their ideas into action. Working together can be challenging at times, however, due to their polarity. Aries's fast-paced, impetuous approach to projects may conflict with Libra's more balanced, intellectual approach. However, both Signs have wide-ranging interests, and at the end of a long, active day, Aries can come home full of interesting stories to tell the more cerebral Libra!What about love in between libran male with aries female. pls advice?
It is said that you are most compatable with your opposite on the horoscope scale. So for libra and Aries.. they are the best compatable.
ARIES %26amp; LIBRA
This is a magnificent combination. The warm and passionate Libra will make a welcome home for the fiery and impetuous Aries. This will be particularly true if both individuals are on the same cultural and intellectual plane. However, this could be a poor match if either is from a culture or religion varying from the other.
Aries appreciates the passion and emotion that Librans possess, but too much of a good thing could spoil the relationship. There must be balance for this combination to work. There is a wider than ordinary margin for error though and most of these pairings will go the distance. Libra's refined and artistic temperament yearns for reciprocal attachments. This is something Aries can provide. There is a powerful initial attraction between these two opposites because, in certain areas, each supplies what the other lacks. For one, the aggressive nature of Aries will arouse Libra's sensual potential. The love life between these two may be unconventional, however, since Libra really desires peace, quiet and harmony ...unlike Aries, who wants action and adventure.
Both individuals are fond of the social life, entertaining and pleasure, but both are restless, albeit in different ways. In time, Libra could search for someone less demanding while Aries seeks out someone more adoring. This combination makes for a marvelous affair but not always a good marriage.
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