Girls, help me out with this girl, i need female advice asap?

Alright, so there's this girl.... and we go to college together. Im getting all the signs that she likes me (looking at me when she thinks i dont know, asking me questions, getting close during labs). BUT she seems sort of shy and the bad thing is that so am i. Anyways, the thing w/ me is that I always seem to mess these things up for some reason (i wait too long and then make a move and by then, they arent interested/want to be friends). So, i dont know how to go about doing this. I like her and im attracted to her, but i havent even asked her name/she hasnt asked for mine or told me hers. W/o sounding conceited or bigheaded, im good looking and a lot of ppl have told me that so its not like im a creeper or anything. What is the best way to go about this whole situation? Like what would YOU want to happen to you? Dont just say ';be nice'; bc honestly i think thats where I mess up all the time, im too nice and I end up getting hurt. Thanks guysGirls, help me out with this girl, i need female advice asap?
Wrong section... but girls definitely like guys who make the first move. Shows confidence and guts. Next time she asks a question, answer it and say by the way my name is ____... start a casual conversation.Girls, help me out with this girl, i need female advice asap?
well you should start by asking her what her name is.


talk to her during classes so you can become friends


then one day maybe ask her what her weekend plans are (this would work good on like a friday) and if she has no plans ask her to hang out with you. or find out things she likes to do and be like oh yea i love that too we should go together sometime, ya know what i mean


and then let things go from there and you'll hopefully have good results (:
It's okay, calm down. See that's a problem, you don't even know her name. Luckily, I can give you a plan that can help you out:


1. Ask her her name and get to know her


2. Hang out with her in public


3. Start hanging out with her more, maybe sometimes in private


4. Ask her out





The trick is to a)Get to know her, and then b)Get her more comfortable around you.


Hope this helps. Good Luck!
you gotta take control and ask her. Thats the only way anythings gonna get done. Dont be a wimp, man. Come'on, if i were her, id want you to be strong and have some guts. just casually ask her name, and tell her yours. Start a conversation, and give little hints that you like her too. It may work out for the better...


Ps. You put this in the wrong section


Good Luck ;)
I'm suprised I actually just read all of that. If you normally mess up when you're talking to that person, then write it to them. Sneak a letter or a poem [if you're good at poetry] to them. It's romantic, and it would be pretty hard to mess it up. Just relax, and go for it.





[: Good luck.
Just tell her theres something youve been wanting to ask her, but havent had the guts. Then ask her to hang out or for dinner, whatever you want to do.
just get to know her or have one of your good friends purposly hook you guys upp!(:
well you can start by introducing yourself to her and finding out her name. then just have a conversation with her and then ask her out for coffee or a movie so you can get to know her more. if you can't find the right words to do so then say this ';i'd really like to continue this conversation over dinner?'; if she is really interested then she will agree and hopefully a relationship will develop from there. good luck and i hope it works out for you! :)
i would like something like


';hey, i dont think we've met before, im ____';


or throw in a joke about the class.


be classy and have a little edge.


dont come off as desperate nice guy.


make sure you smell really good.


and wear blue, its in studies that girls are more attracted to guys in blue.





umm, ask her to get lunch. or go for a walk preferably in a scenic area. or star watching.


ask questions about her, girls love to talk about themselves.


dont think too much, just do it.





GOOD LUCK!
I completely understand your situation! This happens all of the time with me, except with guys obviously, haha. Okay so if I was the girl in this situation, I would just want you to start moving things along and showing your emotions more. Try kicking up things a notch the next time you see her. Don't be all over her or anything, just make sure that she knows how you feel and what you want to happen. Good luck!
Well, to start off, asking for a name is always a good thing. You could start off by introducing yourself which will give her an incentive to introduce herself as well. If she's shy, you COULD wait for her to muster up the courage to begin a conversation, but then again, why not just spark a conversation yourself? Maybe she's the kind of person who you have to approach first. It always depends on the girl, but I know I'm always attracted to a funny, friendly guy.





Just relax and start off by becoming casual acquaintances. Try not to push it. Confidence is key :)





Good luck!





Edit: And after reading what everyone had to say, I'd say all the answers are pretty mutual-haha.