ok so im 17 and my gf is 16 we have been dating for 4 months and were happy but! i notice my gf tends to get jealous when ever i talk to ANY girl at school. i don't want to brag but i know i look good i dress well and drive a nice car so i know i draw attention from girls at school but i don't flirt with them or anything. my gf freaks out even when i hug my friends who are girls or when im walking with them she once didn't talk to me for a week just cause i drove my friend home..... idk what to do i told her i only have eyes for her and she knows that but the jealousy still continues..... any advice on what to say to her or on what i should do?GIRLS!!! i need some female advice about my jealous gf guys u can help too but i mostly need girl responses?
Interesting... I'm in the opposite situation. I'm the jealous one...
Maybe you are kind of flirting with those girls but you just don't realize it. Just watch yourself to make sure.
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>GIRLS!!! i need some female advice about my jealous gf guys u can help too but i mostly need girl responses?
Well, I don't think that its necessary for her to freak out always if you are talking to a girl....Unless the girl is acting flirty and obnoxious. Your g/f doesn't sound very confident in herself, you, or the relationship. However, I do not think that you should drive a female home..especially if the g/f isn't in the car too. I would be mad about that as well.
Well pretend you are in her shoes, would you be jealous if she hugged guys in front of you or asked one of her friends to take her home like you took your friend home...Think about it, and if you really like her and got only eyes for her like you say you do then do what you gotta do to not lose this girl..
Sit her down and tell her again and again until she gets it through her head that you're not gonna go running off on her.
If it continues, and if it really bugs you, you might just have to let her go? You don't have too if you don't want too, that was just the first suggestion that came to mind.
Just keep reminding her about her 'jealous' problem. She'll stop eventually.
Just assure her that she is the only girl you want, and that the rest are just friends who do not even come close to being as special to you, as she is. She probably just feels insecure about the relationship and she may be a little self conscious and have a lower self esteem which makes her feel threatened when you talk to other girls. It's a common thing most teenage girls pass through. I say you just have her sit down and let her express all her feelings, then you express yours and try and clear everything up. Include her in some of the conversations you have with other girls, so she doesn't feel so left out. But if you see that your girlfriend is being overly jealous and too protective of you, dump her because you do not want to lose all your friends just because she couldn't stand the fact of you having other girl friends, which I am sure that she has guy friends as well.
You're only 17, life is long and college is up ahead. If she can't handle you being friends with other girls, she has to mature and become more secure of the relationship she has been in for months.
Also, be careful, because it may be her friends putting false ideas into her head, which is making her unsure of your intentions with the other girls. Your girlfriends' friends could also be the cause of her insecurity and jealousy. They may be imposing false ideas which your girlfriend would have never thought of if it weren't for them.
yeah, dump her and get a girl that isn't such a selfish, immature and insecure brat. why do you want to put up with that? besides, you're only 17. are you planning on marrying this girl next year? you'd better start playing the field now or you'll look back in 10 years and regret that you didn't when you had the opportunity. you don't have to be a player, but why get tied down now? when you stand up for yourself and tell this girl you're done with her attitude and immaturity i guarantee you it will be the most gratifying experience of your life (so far). and remember, there's a big difference between being a jerk and just being self-confident. but seriously, don't put up with this.
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