I'm a guy, and need some female advice?

Alright, to sum up my situation, I'm 20 years old and have only been in one relationship and have never done anything particularly intimate with a girl (haven't even kissed one really). So I just want some advice on that category.





I'm worried because I'm getting older and I'm afraid that my lack of experience is only going to hurt me going forward. For instance when I finally get to the stage of making our or consummating the relationship I obviously won't have any idea what to do in order to satisfy my partner because I have no experience. So from a girl's point of view? Does any of that really matter? Would most girls care?I'm a guy, and need some female advice?
No it doesn't matter.


Don't rush!





These are the to most single important thing i have ever said in my life. I rushed because i was pressured that guys wouldn't like me because i couldn't do this and i didn't know what that was.


Sometimes people discourage you and rush you because their jealous of where you at now. Where everything innocent and new, because you only get that once, after a year of messing about and sex it will be as plan as getting your news paper in the morning. So if your not ready wait, why not?





And the big secret is girls love guys how don't know what their doing, Because girls are so self conscious, no matter how many people they've been with, and if your new at this they generally feel safer and more confident. Which will result in you you getting more steamy encounters/relationships.





But remember if you enter a relationship with someone the shouldn't make you feel guilty about the decisions you made, they should be patient and loving.





Anyway even guys how have done it a 1000 times get it wrong, just because no one really knows until there in the situation, trying their best to make it work.





Hope that helps xI'm a guy, and need some female advice?
Of course it matters, and most girls would care. but don't you worry, once you get into those, you'll instinctly know what and how to do them. don't get too insecure because of your lack of experience, everyone do at some point. it's just at different ages. take it slow, but not too slow. or when you are in a relationship, you can talk it with your partner if you are comfortable with it. you'll know then what to do :)
Not that you should or even can change your history experience with women, but in my opinion person, I wouldn't mind if you are inexperienced or experienced. If I like you, then I will take my time and get to know you for who you are, not what your background is. We all have our first time at doing everything, and it's normal to feel the way you feel, but when it's with the right person, it will come naturally. Trust me.
I think girls will be very accepting, especially if you have the right girl... I know how you feel... I'm 21 and a virgin and have wondered the same things but I'm not going to rush out there and have sex with just anyone... and I am getting older and one of the only virgins I know but I figure it will work out!... Eventually when the time comes just talk to your girl and she will understand... maybe she doesnt really know what she is doing either and you will learn together!
Well you have to start sometime! Stop worrying about your age for a minute. I'm not going to say it doesn't matter, because it does kind of matter...but then again, it depends on how much experience the girl has. so find someone who you think has about the same experience as you (there are girls like you out there trust me) and go for it! experiment. really the stuff you're talking about isnt that hard and comes to most people naturally. you'll pick up in it in no time. Good luck! :)
MY opinion is that you have nothing to worry about.


If you find a good girl who takes things slow and isnt just looking for someone to hump (its rare to find, but there are some of us out there! :P) then she wont care.


My bf is 24, has had one gf before me, and has only ';done it'; once in his life and he regrets it because it wasnt with someone special.


Your future gf should not care, in fact she should be happy about it. It shows her that you arent like most guys out there who just use women for sex. you actually seem to care about us. :P


I personally wouldnt worry about it. Take your time honey, there is no rush and no worry.


Good luck :)
I agree with Jenn, you need to have more confidence in yourself. And if the person you're with dumps you because you don't know what you're doing in that department, they aren't the kind of person you want to be with anyway. And personally, I don't really care. I go for the personality. I mean, someone's personality really changes how you see them.
I think that most women would find that very sexy. It doesn't really matter if you have experience or not. At least not to a ';real'; woman. When you love someone, all of that will come naturally. You don't have to experience something in order to know what to do.
Yes they would care. You need more self confidence or a girl would eventually get tired of you and move on. Do you have intimacy problems..or are you just scared of rejection? I'd say it's both...you should probably find some help or something...or try to change, think about it for a while and see what you want to do.
Depends, most girl now a days are whores and have tons of experience, so they can guide you though it.


Than again not all girl are slutty so they would appreciate how cute the thought is.
the fact is that there is a first for everything. just explain that, and I'm sure she'll completely understand. Besides she might think that it's sweet.
What matters is that you are too self-conscious and lack confidence about it. Just relax and breathe. You are making it into a bigger deal than it actually is
If she loves you enough she won't care. Rather she would probably be happy to teach you a few things.
First off I just want to say it's so sweet how you're worried about this (in a good way). Any way this stuff just come naturally as long as you don't over think it. Hope everything works out :D
40 year old virgin