I really want to kiss him, male and female advice please?!?

Sorry this is really long!! :'(





So I've been very close with this person for 7 months now and we've got a really really special bond and I'm really in love with him. We've kissed each other multiple times but only on the neck, chest and so on.


He's 21 and I believe he's only kissed one other girl who came on to him too fast and he told me he wasn't ready, this was when he was about 18. I haven't asked but I'm pretty sure he hasn't kissed anybody since. But we have had s-x and were each others firsts which was incredible and so special.


When we cuddle sometimes I go on top of him and put my head on his chest or we stare into each others eyes. But he has never made any attempt to kiss me. I think he was probably put off by his first kiss.


I've never kissed anyone myself before, I've always had pretty low self-esteem - though I'm approached all the time by guys when I leave the house and I constantly get tooted or whistled at (which I hate).


When I used to go over his I wasn't as comfortable with him as I am now because it was rare for me to be so close to somebody of the opposite sex. He'd say 'Close your eyes' but I'd say no and turn my head because I was too shy of him looking at my face (which I don't like very much!). Then he said 'Don't worry, I'm not going to kiss you'.


We haven't seen each other for a whole month now due to his work,


but next weekend I'm staying with him again for the night and I'm really looking forward to it.


But I want to kiss him. Not french kiss at that, but a soft and sensual kiss on the lips to give him something to remember and erase the memory of his first.


But I'm afraid he'll react negatively, and the thought still goes through my head 'What if he hasn't kissed me because he just doesn't want to?'. Not to sound vein, but I've been told I have nice proportional red lips by female friends and also by male, and they are very soft too. And I brush my teeth well, keep my breath clean and he loves my perfume.


I don't know whether to kiss him or not, I'm more shy about giving him signs that I want him to kiss me than actually kissing him myself. But I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable or ruin anything. I would probably climb on top of him whilst he is lying on the bed on his back, and look into his eyes before kissing him - is this too smothering or a turn-off for guys?


I'd very much appreciate all of your advice. I apologise for the length! (I'm 17 btw). x





Kind regards :)I really want to kiss him, male and female advice please?!?
he isnt kissing u coz its ur fault. u shouldnt turn away when he says close ur eyes. i mean u had SEX now what? u cant even kiss when u've had sex? he misunderstood.I really want to kiss him, male and female advice please?!?
Umm well you did it with him soo i think you should i mean yh do it in a way that he wasnt expecting it and then just go from there i think he would just go with it if it comes unexpectedly.
ummm you might as well kiss him properly as you've done just about everything else with him. You've had sex with him before kissing him on the lips, strange?
Kiss him, i'm sure he'll love it.
kiss him on his neck from behind he will love that
ithink u should kiss him