My good friend and I used to date 6 years ago for 1 year. He broke up with me because we didn't know what we were doing with our lives....we were younger. ';finding ourselves'; phase
He hasn't dated ANYONE since! No one.
I have...but not seriously.
His mother and sister still treat me like I'm their future relative for God's sake
and him....he treats me with such respect and he tells me im beautiful every time i happen to dress up or something....little things
basically my question is: should i wait it out or tell him i truly love him (i do) and i miss him?
the only thing is....were in the same major AND planning to transfer to the same graduate schools.....so if i mess anything up.....it may be a little awkward for the next couple semestersOVER 18 Please...Male and female advice, please?
if u truly love him, then u have to tell him. u will always regret it if u dont, trust meOVER 18 Please...Male and female advice, please?
k well first off I'm 17, but still I've been in love with this girl for a year and a half and we're still very happy together. I know if we ever part ways that i would take her back in an instant. If anything just see if he wants to get together sometime for lunch or something. hope all goes well
Well it's really up to you. If you really would like to go back into a relationship w/this guy, it might be fantastic since you both know each other so well and have a lot in common. But it's true that if it doesn't work out- it's going to could get very awkward and you risk losing him as a friend.
I think there's something a little wierd about this guy not dating anyone for that long and still treating you like he still has feelings for you. I would think that after awhile, he would have moved on and accepted the fact that things didn't work out. Some people change and others don't.
I dated a guy a long time ago that acted like that and I gave him a second chance a couple of years later and the same issues that came up the 1st time around were still there. We stayed friends then drifted apart. I don't regret moving on w/my life.
I would keep it casual but drop hints now and then nothing over the top. Read his reaction and base your next move on his reactions. Always follow your intuition!
Tell him. The slight awkwardness you'd have passing each other on campus if he rejects you is nothing compared to the happiness you'll have if he feels the same way! It sounds like he does. He hasn't even dated anyone since you. Maybe he couldn't find anyone who could measure up to you. Since you didn't break up on horrible terms, and he still seems to hold you dear, I think you two have a good shot.
if you really like the guy... u should go for it. if u truly feel for him u shouldn't worry about the what if's. Its all about taking chances. IT could work out or it couldn't but guess what... you'll never know until u give it a try. IF it doesn't then cross that bridge when u get there. i dont think u should wait- i think dive right into it and let him know how u feel and see if he feels the same way. good luck
tell him
u should find out if he feels the same way you do b4 u tell him.
seize the moment, if you love him and he loves you that is all that matters, stop thinking in the negative about if it goes wrong, because then you will be kicking yourself after the horse has bolted and you never acted on your feelings.
there is no worse feeling in this subject than of wondering how things mighted have turnedout , only if you believed in yourself and backed your feelings. It is always better to know than to constanly wonder. So go on girl tell him
If you love him stop f-ing around and tell him. That not dating anyone for 6 years is a little bit of a red flag, it's not normal.
If I were you, I would tell him how much you love him. And you weren't sure how YOU felt back then and you want him bak. This may or may not work. Try it to find out. It's worth the risk, or try. So.... I hope I helped!
';wait it out';? ... what would you be waiting for???
(Edit) You make it sound like it has to be all or nothing (don't say anything or tell him you ';truly love'; him). But why don't you just ask if he wants to try dating you again. Or get drunk together and hook up ;)
have his baby
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