Saturday, July 31, 2010

Ok only girls should ans this (not a perv question just seeking some female advice)?

i really am into this girl. she is my best friend and id do anything for her. i have a small crush on her but she has a boyfriend and her parents are assholes (saying things like im a bad seed b/c my name is matt and crap) and she lives a good 15 miles away but we go to the same skool. well here are some things i wana run buy yall:


1. when she says shes cold should i give her my jacket (remember she has a bf but he never wears a jacket)


2. me and her flirt alot (jokingly) and i was wonderin if i should stop cause of logan (bf)?


3. i h8 her boyfriend and have since i met him. i say hes an asshole but if he makes hannah happy im cool w/ him. is that wrong?


4. her 14th bday is in 18 days and i was wonderin if i should buy her roses?


5. is it bad to hug on a daily basis if ur just friends? (best friends)


6. have any of you went through this and could u share your story for a little better help?


heres her pic:


http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage%26amp;friendID=378568905%26amp;albumID=578312%26amp;imageID=5140086


Ok only girls should ans this (not a perv question just seeking some female advice)?
Giving her your jacket isn't really a big issue that you should question about. Just look at is as if your being there for her. Being best friends while being the opposite sex and flirting isn't really a huge problem but it could send mixed signals in the end. And even though you hate her boyfriend you should still be there for her because I mean if you're going to call yourself her best friend then you have to be one first. Buying her roses for her birthday in a way it's a bit far for the position you're in right now. Hugging is okay, there's not a rule against hugging your best friend. and yes I have been in this position,actually..I still kinda am...but only from a girl point of view. Ok only girls should ans this (not a perv question just seeking some female advice)?
First of all it is private and i dont know what to say sorry.:(
1. I would say it's alright to do that but don't make it awkward. Just ask, ';Do you want mine?'; or something along those lines. Don't do it if her boyfriend is near.


2. It's normal for bestfriends to do that and as long as she doesn't have a problem with it then it's fine.


3. It's nice that you find it's ok for her to go out with him even though you don't like him. You could try telling her how you feel but don't make it seem like you like her. That will only complicate things.


4. Whoaa roses? That's very romantic but you're not her boyfriend so I don't think you should buy her those. But still get her a present that shows you care. Maybe a teddy bear, us girls love gifts like that.


5. Hugging is normal between bestfriends (even if it's guy/girl) so keep doing it if she's ok with it.


6. Don't ruin a perfectly good friendship. If her boyfriend is really an asshole then she'll be able to tell and will probably break up with him. If it's really bothering you then tell her. But if you guys have been best friends for a long time then she might not be interested in you. Either that or you hadn't given her any signs of interest earlier so she's moved on.





Sorry for the long post lol.


And the profile is private.

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