Why does she act like this? Female advice?

I liked this girl and whatever, I told her this, she wanted to be friends, I moved on.





Anyways we are still friends and she ALWAYS get angry or pist off my actions, like I wouldn't respond to a text and she would get mad at me for 2-3 weeks ignoring me, not talking to me, etc and then she just comes around. Sometimes I would say something like ';yeah ill see you on friday outside so and so class';and then im not able to make it friday she gets angry. She's not my GF and I say these things casually, like ';hopefully ill see you outside class'; and she takes it literally and then gets super mad. Its not like im setting up a damn date or anything.... Then she just changes and acts like she LOVES me, starts doing all these things for me, talking to me, texting me... I mean if she was my GF i would be more consistent, but shes not...





What should I do? I used to really really really like her but now she is becoming too much even as a friend. I dont get why, should I just end the friendship altogether and tell her ';i dont like your up and down moody behavior so lets not be friends';? She's not like this with ANYONE else...





Like monday she text me ';hey you around my area today?'; at 5 PM.... I didn't really see that till 4 AM the next morning. So I didn't feel the need to respond. Next time I text her no response.... Then this saturday i wanted to invite her to college event so i sent a message on facebook on tuesday evening inviting her. Since then she hasn't updated her facebook or anything to make it look she didnt read my message (she updates 4-5 times a day and since tuesday its been 0) but she does comment other people so (i dont think she knows people can see when she comments, she is new to facebook)





The thing is that she NEVER confronts me... which effectively destroys any chance I have to explain, she assumes and then just gets mad without confronting me like other people do...








Also, i know its messed up but i've tried to get her jealous and she has reacted by ignoring me....





I dont mind her being clingy, i just dont understand why she gets mad or doesnt confront me... if she confronts me i can explain and we can laugh about it or whatever.. I really dont mind clingy girls, she just becomes weird...Why does she act like this? Female advice?
god that is weird.





id say just ignore her. but if you still wanna be her friend you should just talk to her seriously.Why does she act like this? Female advice?
Tell her that when you make her mad, talk about it, tell her that your friend ship means something, and that ignoring you is stupid.
HOP UP OUT THA BED TURN MY SWAG ON TAKE A LOOK IN THA MIRROR SAY WASUP YEAHHH OHHH!!!
its just girl stuff
She's crazy. Literally.





I had a friend like that in highschool and finally I couldn't take it anymore.


I told her that I couldn't handle her roller coaster moods anymore, and if she couldn't stop the BS, we couldn't be friends. She got really mad and never talked to me again, but I was so much happier for it!





It's hard to deal with people that have characteristics of BiPolar Disorder. It makes you feel bad for making them mad, sad, etc.





Tell her how you feel:


That she's not your GF, you're just friends and that her mood swings are not cool. You can't handle them, and if she wants something more out of this relationship she needs to say so, instead of acting like she does.
This is GUY advice. I would so totally find her best friend and get with her, just for the fun of it. These are the days to have fun and who cares what this weird girl and I mean girl does or says, she has no hold on you. Change your cell #, ignore her, date and have fun, forget her. When she comes running to you for love or advice or whatever just say, hey, get away from me.
the only time ive not responded to a guy when he canceled on me was once and it was because the reason why he got ';held up'; was by another girl!





Does she forsurely know YOU just want to be friends?


maybe shes ';ignoring'; you to make it seem like she doesnt care but she really does.





id say try to respond to her and tell her what happened, why you couldnt text her and hope to see her at this thing.


if she doesnt respond then well shes stuborn because believe me im a hand ful but i atleast let him explain.





hope everything works outt =]
alot of girls are like this,


tell her its annoying (don't sugar-coat it and make it sounds sweet because then she won't stop, girls won't stop until they know how retarded they are really acting)





:)
I am pretty much in that girl situation. and the guy does exactly same. I too know I am not his gf, but I like him. I thought he liked me too and may be more because of some or other signals. So I thought that he likes me too and want more. But he does the same thng, when I text similarly the way u said, he does not respond and then he would call some other day. What th heck. So what I read is girl may be in love with u as I am. But as I dont see him responding properly, I am also ignoring him now. Becuase who wants this pain.
Ok i couldnt read the whole thing because it was too long


But she still has feelings for you and maybe in her mind she's is trying to fight those feelings off, but its kinda hard when you REALLY like somebody


the best you can do is just be cool about it, chill, she basically in a battle with herself right now





its part of being a girl
Dang, this is a sucky situation. But just as you view her behavior as moody, she might view yours the same way (say you'll be there and you don't show up. ';ignore'; a text, but facebook her, etc.)


I think it'd just be best for you to explain asap when stuff like that happens...for instance...you get a text that you should have responded to the day earlier. Text her back and be like ';Hey, sorry i didn't get your text until now. it would have been cool to meet up. but how are you'; type thing. Show that you regret (even if you don't always...it saves the drama) and be caring. Just treat others how you'd like to be treated and things should work out. Good luck!!! :)
Sounds like you got a case one your hands buddy! I think that its a mixture of just being a girl but....I THINK SHE LIKES YOU!!!! I think that she likes you and doesn't want to admit it. How long ago did you ask her out? I think that if she got THAT mad at you when you didn't show up that means she was disapointed that she didn't get to see you and she thought you didn't care about her. If i asked a guy friend that I just liked as a friend to meet up with me before a class and he didn't show, id be like ';Ahhhh its ok whatevs.'; but if it was a guy I liked liked I would get nervous and then get all ';mad'; at him just becuase I'm mad that he ';might not like like me because he didn't show up.'; Kinda get what I'm getting at? i hope that helps!!! keep trying dude!! you never know....she may ask you out!!!! Happy Smiles!!!