Why did she stop talking to me? Please some FEMALE advice?

So me and a girl were talking through facebook email and then last monday I sent her a message and she never responded. At first I thought she didn't get it, but wednesday she text me being really nice asking about something I mentioned in the email. So she obviously read the email, but I said that I couldn't meet her that afternoon, but probably in the evening. I even mentioned in the email ';its a busy week, but I got you this wednesday and if not this wednesday next wednesday'; since she lives about 25 miles from me and I am not always there.





So I was free later that even on wednesday and I text her to meet and she said she was preparing to sleep so I said goodnight and she said goodnight, enjoy the night. That was the last time we spoke.





It is now 8 days later and I see her facebook all updated and stuff and still no response from her. I don't get what happened.





Any females know what is running through her mind and what happened? Why didn't she get back to me? I am not even 100% sure she likes me but she gives me so many mixed signals and now im just all confused. In the email I basically answered some questions she answered and i asked her a question or two she loves answering.





I don't know what to do, please help someone, this is driving me nuts.





In the message we were just talking about dating. She told me that she hasn't had a boyfriend in a loong time, and she only dates a lot because she is really insecure about guys cheating.





I told her that im not a loser like most guys and not everyone is and that when its dating my options are open, but when it comes to a relationship its ';me and wifey, that's it';Why did she stop talking to me? Please some FEMALE advice?
Ok, so from what I got out of this. There has been no contact between the two of you for eight days. So how is that completely her fault. You're waiting for her to say something, she's probably waiting for you to say something... Try texting her or sending her another message/email.Why did she stop talking to me? Please some FEMALE advice?
Hiya, your woman is definitely insecure (not uncommon at all), if you really like her keep trying %26amp; insecure girls need more of a guys time than once a week so you might want to try your hardest to see her more you know as much as you can, go out of your way for her if you are that keen! Goodluck.
She could be interested in another boy. Or she could be not sure whether she's ready to see you for the first time. I really hope you didn't rush into anything. What did u say in the email?


You need to take it slower with her. Why would you even date on the internet anyway?
have you talked to her yet, like on the phone. Then leave her a message. Texting is great but when it comes to more serous matters then a call will be the right thing to do.
maybe she doesnt like u anymore i had a girl tell me she likes me that i emailed her and asking how often she dates and then she told me shes not interested in me anymore maybe the email ruined it then it would make me so devestated
ae. its ok. she probably doesn't have enough time. give it a couple of more weeks. if you have any more questions feel free to email me or something. i am having problems with someone right now too. . .
Aw! well hun the only thiing ii can thiink of... rejectiion. she probably felt rejected to many tiimes.
Just send her another email,
You mean you told her you were married? Or did i just read that wrong.
shes confused and is waiting for you to chase her down.......... now you go catch that As$ !
she dont like you








move on looser
if she has had the opportunity to talk to you and has not, then the painful truth is clear- for whatever reason she is not interested in talking to you. people have a lot of baggage for various reasons. just let it go and move on. if you really do know how to treat women well then you will find one soon who knows how to treat you well back
Um no offense but your details are as confusing as you must think she is. First of all in your details you mention she is sending mixed signals, but you sent mixed to her too.





If either of you are interested, you have to be more certain and specific about dates and times, then make it happen, not change plans at the last minute, or sound uncertain.





I'm not at all a fan of face place or my space or texting, but a call, a live voice works for me.





Angel
well like you said she feels insecure about guys cheating. Maybe you should show her tha you aren't like that. But if she's giving you mixed signals then maybe somethings going on thet she doesn't feel comfortable talking to you about. Maybe you should think back to your first date or sumthin and maybe you said sumthin to her that made her upset or made her get mixed feelings about you. The best thing to do is talk to her.
It is very intimidating for a girl to meet up with a stranger - or even someone she doesn't know well.





So she is playing it smart. She may realize that she likes you via e-mail, but she is afraid to see you face-to-face. She is probably thinking ';What if you turn out to be a stalker? What if I can't keep up a conversation face-to-face? etc.';





Sorry you felt like she was sending you mixed signals. maybe she just wanted validation without having to give anything back? Some women are like that.
I'm not a female but from what I see here she is either insecure about men still or she is feeling pressured from you. Best thing to relax and stop worrying about it. Getting worked up over someone that you don't really have a relationship with in the first place just makes you look desperate. My first rule when getting to know someone is become friends first, if you can make a friendship work then it may be time to move on to trying for a relationship. If you like to read I suggest a book called ';Men Are Like Waffles - Women Are Like Spaghetti';. This is one of the best books I have ever read explaining how men and women relate to one another. Good luck my friend.