I need Female advice Please?

6/7 weeks ago, my GF of 1.5 years broke up with me. We were very much in love, best friends, confided in each other, talked about marriage, etc. She told me she doesnt feel the passion and doesnt feel romantically wanting me anymore. This obviously did hurt. Since then we have had limited contact. Originally I told her she was too important to my life and I still wanted her around. She said she needed space and couldnt be there right now. I gave her space, and a week or so later she called to remind me of songs and tell me about a movie that is coming out. Every one of my friends says if there is any remote chance of reconciling, it Has to come from her and I should not contact her. Every time I dont contact her, she will call or text something small to me (like wanting to return our stuff to each other) and she is nice about it, but then i start to text her and she kind of backs off at the idea of even grabbing lunch. What is the best way to handle this if i do want her in my life???I need Female advice Please?
This is tough. It really sounds like she may have moved on. Trying to get her back could backfire on you and she may eventually start to hate you, which would create more distance between you.





You might have to wait for her. You might have to be a distant friend for a while, work your way up to a closer friend, and then just wait for her to make the move. You just can't seem desperate.





If not, try something new that will make her see you in a new light and make her attracted to you. I have a feeling space might be your best bet. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. Good luck.I need Female advice Please?
Tell her that although it's very hard for you because of how much you love her, that out of respect for her needs and wishes, you will give her as much space and time as she needs. Call her to say 'hi' once a month or for special occasions, but otherwise let her make the moves. I guess the old adage applies here: ';If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was.';
If she's meant to be yours, she will. Just give her space and a little more time. You really cant force the matters of the heart. What matters is, u love her with the fullest of your heart and with much sincerity. Do not lose hope and be saddened with the outcome. Trust God. He has arranged for someone out there for you, specially meant for you. Only time will tell. Just let nature takes its place and u will be just fine.
It sounds like she has to be in control. She wants everything on her terms and nothing on yours. If there is to be any future between the two of you, you have to meet her halfway or the relationship will never work no matter how you feel about her. Tell her she can talk to you when she grows up. Until then you're free to do as you please.
i know this is hard for you but she has made her feelings pretty clear. she wants to move on...as in date OTHER people. do u think u could handel seeing her with someone else? if not then it would b much easier for you to let her go...u will get over her eventually,and when you do if u still want to b friends u can work something out...
i would give her her space. and after a couple weeks if u still love her call her to say wats up? then start to doing little romantic jestures
Move On,find someone else it sounds like she did.Change your phone # and email address.
give her space, she'll come around, and if she doesn't you deserve better
You didn't mention your age.





Things were probably moving too fast at too early a stage. It sounds as if you are both being reasonably mature about this all. Let time and situations dictate what to do. Try to be cool about it all.





When you're young in particular passion inspires your thoughts and assumptions. Logic, communication and like interests isn't always as exciting but that will be what will keep a relationship together after the passion subsides. Passion does seem to subside to an extent for whatever reasons but that doesn't mean that the love can't be more intense and everlasting. That's what is important. That is what most people learn is the most important part of a relationship. Be glad that she is being honest with you. She's trying to figure things out. That is a good thing even if you don't last. Better to find out now than to eventually marry and grow to hate it all. You know that happens a great deal.





Good luck. I think you have a fairly good chance.
Well, you are in a very tough position because she's definitely running the show right now.... so if I was in your situation I would probably do the opposite of what your friends have said, I would give her space and let her know that she's playing with your emotions right now with the mixed messages. Think about it, she knows you still want her and want the relationship, so she's take advantage of your feelings by calling/texting you when it's convenient for her, but when you reach out, she pushes away. Well tell her you deserve better, you enjoyed your relationship with her and like it to continue, but you have to protect your heart too. So give her what she wants.... SPACE! I know you thinking but that's not what you really want, but do you really want to be in the position you're in.... I think not! So stand strong and do what's best for you and communicate this to her and end things. Maybe 6-9 months from now you two can begin a true friendship, once the feelings and emotions have past.
Honestly hon give her space. Your friends know you and this chick. they wouldnt say anything on purpose to hurt you they are just looking out for you. The only reason she's texting you about movies and songs is because she misses you and used to you being there. What I'd do, to be honest give her the stuff back, chill with your boys and lay low. If she wants your love back, she will come to you. In the mean time, get out and be active to get your mind off of things. Nati