I need female advice. Help?

Ok, theres this girl, I'll call her Jane. (Were in High School)





Well, Jane and I have been up and down the last couple of months. Its started with her saying she liked me, I told her I liked her too, but were weren't/aren't going out. Then a few weeks later I invited her to a pool ';get-together';. She cancled on me, the the next day she started ignoring me. (Its summer so we don't see each other)





She woundn't reply to text's or answer phone calls. I wasn't bugging her at all. Just every now and then I would text/call her, just to see what was up.





So, about 2 months later, she texted me one day and said ';Hey';. The we carried on a conversation like nothing had happend.





Jane said ';Man, I havn't talked to you in a long time';.


I said ';Yeah, I noticed. Why was that';?


Jane said ';I didn't want it to be wired, since I cancled on the pool thing';.


I said ';I don't think it would've been';.





Then we got on a different conversation, and I later asked her if she was sure the reason she quit talking to me was because of the pool thing. And she said yes.





Later, we were talking about when we said we liked each other. And she said she didn't know for sure if she still liked me. She said it was just somthing that time would have to tell. I still like her, and she know that. (I told her I did)





School starts next week, and I'm at a loss. I don't know if I should act like friends or more then friends. That, and I'm kinda confused. So any advice, comments, help, would be greatly appreciated.I need female advice. Help?
Well, nothings been finalized. Just be a good friend. Don't push things. Time will tell as she clearly states.. so why not let time work and see what happens next? Good luck!I need female advice. Help?
Just act like a flirty friend. If she ends up not liking you, then you can just blow it off like, ';I was just messing around. Hahaha.';


If she says that she likes you back, then flirt, but play a little hard to get. If you get too clingy, she'll push you around and use you for whatever she wants.
don't act like more than friends unless you're sure that she wants that.


it might creep her out.


act like nothings wrong, but only friends.


to be 100% honest with you, it doesn't seem like she likes you like that anymore.


I'm only saying that because i'm a girl and i act that way when i move on.


so like she said, time will tell. see what happens. and good luck!
Definitely just act normal because if you act like ';more than friends'; she might think you are clingy. Also it wasn't the pool thing. She was probably just didn't know what to say or needed to think things through first. Just let her come to you because she already knows how you feel.
Forget her! Find a girl who isn't going to be a flake and treat you like that. There are plenty of girls, who will be sweet and such. Your to good for her, promise.





Don't wait for her.





Sincerely,


Heather :D
since she knows you like her act like it. just dont go over board. and when you think she is definately liking you then ask her out. if it doesnt work out with Jane there are plenty of pretty... nice girls out there.
be Friends if she wants more, she will make it happen. U will notice.
The best thing I could say is talk as friends but tell her if she wants to be more than friends it's up to her and just tell her that you still like her (that's if you do).





Hope things work out.





Good luck x
Just act relaxed around her, deffinantly make the effort to go talk to her, act friendly and chilled out and even give her a casual hug when u see her..but dont take it much further than that till u get some vibes..=)
tlk to her as friends. dnt tlk as more than friend. she said she confused and if u tlk more than friends to her then u might scare her away and she not b interested at all.
You need to think if you guys we're together if she would make a good beau. If you think she will be more than friends. If you don't just act like nothing happened and still be friends
Sounds like a school game she playing you might want to explore your options.
act like just friends. wait to see her reaction... you don't wanna freak her out.
Well I think it is great that you were honest with her. That is good and now she knows. But I think you should play a little hard to get at this point. This way she will come to her senses and realize that she will miss you. Sure you can say hi adn give a smile in the hallway but try no tot txt or call her. Wait for her to come to you. And if she calls or texts then wait a couple times. I think that is what she was doing. It totally wasnt the pool thing. She was waiting for YOU to be nervous about HER. Hope I helped! And Good Luck!
now wen u get back to school act like friends (normal)


and talk to her now and then.


then after awhile wen things r good between u and her ask her to


hang out again.


if she cancels then that bascially means that she just wants to be friends.
Well, from what I have read, you stated that she doesn't know weather or not she likes you. The best thing to do is be her friend move up with her from there, get to know her weakness and greatness. You will also have a better chance of getting closer to her through friends, then hitting straight to the love stuff. Show her that you will be there for her know matter what even if she decides that she doesn't like you, but wants to come to you to ask you help about another guy. Be there; that will get you the farthest. :) I hoped I helped. If you ever need anything else, feel free to email me at miss_advice22@yahoo.com.
She is most likely feeling someone else and is confused as to whether or not she still likes you. You should give her time to decide after asking her if there is another guy that has caught her eye. If there is, then all you can really do is try your best to be there for her to prove to her that she should pick you and after she does, then continue being there for her so that you can prove that you WANT to be there for her.