RELATIONSHIP ISSUES, need female advice... HELP?!?

ok... so heres the deal... i've been with this girl for over a year now... and i often catch her texting, and emailing guys.. like, im not that much of a jealous person, but i overlooked one of her messeges to these guys that read. ';Well thats hot, so, when are we hanging out?';.. she then hid the phone so i wouldent see what i already saw... but i dident say anything.. i work full time now and she has one year of school left, so i only see her like 3 times a week... is she cheating on me..? what should i do?RELATIONSHIP ISSUES, need female advice... HELP?!?
Ya she is and you should dump her a.o.k! You can get a better one honey! =)


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Even if she is not cheating on you her behavior is inappropriate. My boyfriend and I are extremely honest with one another and we never hide text messages from one another. Basically if you have nothing to hide then hide nothing. If she is not allowing to see what is on her phone then there is obviously something on there that she knows you would not approve of. My advice is to sit down with her and ask her outright why she is hiding her phone and if she has cheated on you. If she gets extremely upset, yells at you, turns it around on, changes the subject etc, then I would say that if she is not actually cheating she is pretty close to it. If she is calm about it, shows you her phone messages, and offers up other proof that she is not cheating, then unless she is a fantastic liar, she probably is not cheating. I hope this helps and good luck!
Women in relationships like to know that they are still desired by other men. Often times its just innocent fun, but its easy to cross that line especially if you're apart a lot. I knew it would eventually get in the way of my relationship so I cut off contact with certain guys.
okay well, it seems as if she hasn't been interested in you for quite a while now and just been using you as her security blanket, call her again, see what she has to say for herself, if shes not going to change her ways, i say ditch her even though it will be hard at first, you seem like a sweet guy you can do better:)
It does sound a bit suspicious. But I don't think that's enough proof that she is cheating. I would just keep my eyes open and pay a little more attention for awhile and if you find out anything else damaging than question her about your findings.
forget her.


there is no excuse for cheating. and you dont know for sure that she'll never do it again. she probably will.





you deserve to have someone fully committed to you, and only you.





youre only young. theres plenty of time for love!
awww ..its hard but your best off moving on mate ... she is a bike your young and there are plenty of nice girls out there ..but if i was you id stay single for a while and dont think that all women are like her cause we ain't =)
sounds like she is cheating especially since she's asking a guy when they can hang out. ditch her. relationship isn't really good without trust.
It sounds like she is....why would she have to hide anything at all? If someone is hiding anything then they mostly are cheating or ';talking'; to other guys. Be careful....keep your eyes open!
thats highly suspicious. sit her down and let her know.. oops.... im not a girl!!!





move on dude
Please be honest with her. Ask her where you guys stand and how she feels about the relationship. Ask her if she feels you guys are still going strong or if she has the need to see other people. Maybe she will realize there is no need to go around behind your back with silly texts and stop or tell you something you don't want to hear. Jealousy has nothing to do with it, it's common courtesy and respect for you.