Thursday, July 29, 2010

I need help with this complicated situation? NEED FEMALE ADVICE?

I like this girl and yesterday as a joke I said ';have fun, let me know if there are any good looking shorties at the party haha'; I was waiting for a response before I said JK and she said ';ill def hit you up if I see some fly girls...the girls around here suck anyways';





So later in the night I ended up going to the same party and I text her while outside ';so are there any good looking fly girls at the party or are you the only one?'; and she replied ';im the only one... and my friend ofcourse';.





So I was outside and she was going home and i called out her name and she came over to me and started talking to me about how wack the party was and how wack the guys and girls were. She gave me a nice big hug and cheek kiss. When we started talking, its like my friends became invisible to me and her, I SWEAR this was the first time I ever looked this deeply into a girls eye and she was staring right back at my eyes looking up(im tall she is very short). I don't even remember what we were talking about but her eyes were so beautiful. We were both just smiling and talking, and for a good 2 minutes we were lost in that and then we exchanged cheek kisses, she went to her friends car and went home.





For a while now she has been giving me mixed signal, but I think that's more than just friends. No other regular female friend has ever locked eyes like we did. Right before she left its like we both knew we were staring at each other in the eyes and my friends started saying something she was just saying ';yeahhhhhhhhh'; but she had like a expression on her face right around the end where basically our eyes knew and agreed that we were staring into them and we smiled. Its hard to explain the wonderful feeling I had and that her eyes were saying she approved.





The comment from her is what is bugging me, I thought I would get a different reaction, she basically said she is gonna help me find a girl, which she KNOWS is not a problem with me. For a while now she has been acting jealous but today it was just anti-jealous, like she wants me to meet other women. I am so confused, whats going on?





BTW as another joke/reply to the ';the girls here suck anyways'; i said ';yeah nyc got the best looking girls'; ';i got one in each boro and 2 on the island'; and then I said ';im just kidding'; and she didn't reply to any of that. Also when everything was said and done my friend without me mentioning anything about liking her, he said ';damn she was soooo into you';





I did text her today about 6 hours ago saying ';its snowing :)'; but I got no response.I need help with this complicated situation? NEED FEMALE ADVICE?
AWW you sound soo cute!


and it seems like your really into her!!


i think she's probably crushing on you, and is just trying to hide it from you because shes confused about whether or not YOU like her. She probably feels like shes getting mixed signals from you, with all the asking if theres any hot girls in the party thing, probably thinking your actually looking for another girl. maybbe be more obvious with you liking her, ASK HER OUT! like to the movies or something. she'd probably love it, and would definetly go with you! take a shot, she definetly would not say no!!


good luck and i hope everything works out for you :)

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