Ok, so I really like this girl, and she told me today that she has a lot of guys and that her main one might be going to jail for a long time(the guy finds out july 1)
She was crying and stuff. I understand her problem from what she tells me, she has been hurt in the past, and is very insecure about herself and has low self esteem. She is really harsh on herself and has A LOT OF STRESS, and she sounds like she really can't take it anymore. Day by day she is angrier and angrier at how people hate on her and how everyone lies to her and that she is having physical problems due to stress.
So I feel her and why she has so many guys around so that no one can hurt her again. She was about to choose the guy going to jail as her only one b/c he is her main one right now, and leave all the other guys, but now he might be going to jail, so she probably is hurt again.Should I confront her about my feelings and her behavior? REAL FEMALE ADVICE PLEASE?
I think you should definitely tell her how you feel. That's probably what she needs right now; a person who really cares. Either that or you can continue to be a good friend and be there for her and when she gets on her feet, then tell her. But I think you should tell her how you feel, and the main guy is going to jail? That's no place to be. The place she needs to be is in your arms, safe and sound. You're a guy that is hard to find. She's lucky. Good luck to both of you.Should I confront her about my feelings and her behavior? REAL FEMALE ADVICE PLEASE?
yes tell her all that
make sure she knows you'll be there for her
she needs you right now
go for it. i think she will really appreciate knowing that she has someone on her side that she can trust. you sound like someone that really wants the best for her and is seriously concerned about her well being. Be prepared for her to possibly not be ready for a relationship at this point though, I know with everything she's going through that might not be the best thing for her right now. But it's important that she knows you will be by her side through it all. Good Luck!
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