Girls what should I do.. Need female advice?

Back in August I met this girl and we hit it off real good. We started hanging out almost everyday and we were just extremely close friends. In December I told her I had feelings for her and she said she was willing to try us out. I soon found out through someone else that she had gotten out of a 4 year relationship that ended pretty bad right before I met her. I could tell things were troubling her so I asked her. She said it has nothing to do with me or how she feels for the ex, but she needs to be single. She says at this point I don't think I can commit and she can't tell anything about the future. She says if its meant to be it will just happen and that I should make decision that are best for ME right now. So we split and haven't talked nearly as much anymore, because I respected her need for space. My question: Do you think she was ever into me? Could I have just been a rebound? What are my chances of repairing our relationship in the future..?Girls what should I do.. Need female advice?
it's obvious she was broken hearted. and still is.


she must have had some sort of feelings for you, or else she never would have been with you. girls don't go with guys they don't like or have any interest in.


she was obviously never over her ex, and she probably still loved and still does love him.


she is still hurt and damaged over what happened and she knows from the experience she had with you that rushing into a new relationship doesn't change how she feels about her ex.





i would not even think about trying to repair your relationship in the future.. she is very confused and lost and she will probably be that way for awhile. i would move on to someone who doesn't have any baggage with ex boyfriends and who can be with you and love you. there are girls out there like that! don't waste any more time on this girl than you already have, you'd be together right now if you were meant to be. good luck, and move on and let go of this girl. learn from it, and tuck it away. get out there and find a girl who loves you. :)Girls what should I do.. Need female advice?
at first, maybe she has a thing for you... for she enjoys your company..(accdg.to you) and i guess, she did tried to transfer her feeling to you...but she was confused..!so she needed some space..
First of all, just because she met you after her other relationship broke up and you think you are a ';rebound'; does not mean that she didn't have genuine feelings for you...I would say do your best to keep in contact and let her know you are there if/when she needs you...but that doesn't mean for you to wait around with your thumb in your..anatomy...continue dating around...maybe you'll meet someone in the meantime...Good luck!