I need some female advice please?

Well it's a long story so I will try to make it short. I was roommates with a girl. We hit it off. I kinda pushed things. She said she would try us. She then said she needed more time to be single. I found she came out of a 5 year relationship. I moved away. 6 months later we are talking a little more. I'm moving back in December and I get the feeling she is finally starting to get over her ex. Now here is the question. I Love this girl and I want a shot with her, but not sure how I should play it. Should I ask her how she feels and if she says she doesn't feel the same should I just leave. OR Should I play it cool and tell her I still have feeling for her. Let it build up and hang out more with her. I feel as if it is so hard to wait and almost feel that if she tells me now that she doesnt feel the same I need to move on. It's so hard because she is sooo confused. Any advice?I need some female advice please?
It's hard to be the one who is waiting for someone else, which it sounds like you have really liked her for a long time. It depends really on how awkward you would feel if you hung all those feelings out there and she didn't reciprocate them.


I think I would put it all out there and tell her how you feel, that way if she doesn't feel the same you could move on, and if she does feel the same you could start the relationship you've wanted for awhile.


I hope it works in your favor, good-luck!I need some female advice please?
Definitely play it cool and go slow until you see a ';green light'; in her eyes before you tell her how you feel. Why put yourself through heartache if she is still distant and confused? Great love takes time and only time will tell if she can later be 100% for you or if you need to move on.
5 year relationship? Give her some time. Get closer to her, over a long period of time, and give her hints that you might be interested. (Ex. ';Your hair looks nice today...the light on it makes it so pretty.'; ';Will you eat with me today?';) %26lt;-- those might be really stupid, but subtlety is always useful.
It's hard to be any more patient, but you'll have to give her space if she is still confused (i.e. that means she's not over the guy)
just screw around with other chicks until she makes up her effin mind
No matter how fast you want things to go you can't rush her. After a 5 year relationship she needs some time to see what she wants in life and how to deal on her own. If you really love her you'll take things at her pace and don't pressure her about anything. I would try being a good friend to her and not worry about getting in the ';friend zone.'; After a certain age that really is so much crap. Just enjoy the time you spend together, work on improving yourself and your life and find ways to make her feel comfortable in it. Make a space for her and let her know it's there by doing things together as friends and again, don't put any pressure on her. You don't want to come off as desperate or pushy - definite turn-off. Good luck.