I am a 29 year old Engineer here in Tampa Florida, And Everytime I date and go out, I get treated not so great by woman.. I seam to find the ones that got burnt the most and I have a hard time findng a woman that wants a man, not a boy..
I am loyal, dependable, kind, caring faithful, understanding and I am not afrade to wear my emotions. I never lie and I just want to start a family soon. I am not looking to Jump right into a LTr, But I want one now and I got certain things I want..
Is it wrong to want to talk, to comunicate, to be compassionate, to be caring to be a great man, cause thats what I am, I am a full time Engineer, I make great money, I got no bills, I am handsome, I think I look normal, And I got no drama behind me.. So why do I get treated like I am to good to be true, and don't tell me I should start acting like a jerk, cause I will not. I am who i am, now how can I get past these women that treate me like I am their ex's??I need some female Advice?
It sounds like you are offering the whole package, you are obviously dating the wrong women.
You are giving what most women want, security, loyalty, communication, hopes of a family, and friendship. Women are sick and tired of getting in dead end relationships, and getting screwed over by men. We all know how bad it is when you are loving somebody and they dont love you back. What sucks is that when men do this to women, they do have a hard time moving on, and then the next nice guy comes along (YOU) and they get totally dogged out. This is because the woman has trust issues, and she might be more cautious about giving away her heart.
Everyone I know has been screwed over atleast once, but when you look for a date, make sure she is over hte Ex, and it will be easier for her to move forward. No rebound relationships, Let her know you want to take it slow bt eventually be serious and she should appreciate that, because after all you are offering what most women are looking for, Good Luck
I need some female Advice?
The first thing you need to know when you start a new relationship or about to go on a first date is try not to sound as though you urgently need somebody to settledown with... Be cool, calm and relax... Don't rush the girl... You're not respecting her if you rush... Relax and let nature do the rest...
As you are comfortable, Invite all the fully known and partially known people around you for a dinner.During the dinner you can select any spinster and open your heart...If you get positive reply it is good ...if not try next week again by organising a dinner.
Try to be humble..
Meet new people!
Maybe, she's there yet you don't know if she is the one..
Try thinking deeply of persons you enjoy going it and makes you fell something; something magical.
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cuz they dont deserve u not all women are like this find a decent woman not a ******
ok I don't know exactly what to tell you other than as far as the exes of sorts, what right or place do they have to treat you in any way? if you don't want to deal with them don't deal with them, find yourself a better class of woman, that's part of your problem, I know it has been mine, I have been selling myself short even though I know I am a nice enough guy as well, don't make nearly as much as an engineer does but that's probably why I settle for less than what I deserve, so anyways I would say take your time to get to know a woman that you are interested in, I know what you mean and what you are saying by you wanting a family, but just take your time and watch them and observe them and get to know them, that way you know what you are getting yourself into
sometimes we seem to continue to attract the same type of person....over and over again...look into yourself and see if this is not true....example...abused women get out alive after years of abuse, and turn around and choose another abuser...see what i mean?? i realize this isnt as dramatic...but may hold some weight...search your soul...what do all these women you found attractive have in common and go from there...try another brand of woman after that, and see how it goes...good luck
kelly b
I don't know what is wrong with those women, but you sound like a great guy! Maybe the problem is where you meet them? I hope it isn't a bar, because you'll only find damaged goods there. Finding a woman with her own career and with confidence is your key.
Do you have friends that are women? Ask them if they have single friends that you might like.
How old are the women you are dating? The more immature ones will be more dramatic and self-centered.
Chances are, you won't find a woman that hasn't been burnt before. However, if you talk to her and find out how she handled the situation, you might be able to find someone that has the self-confidence to rise above adversity.
Happy hunting!
I don't know what responses you had before but it seems to me you need to readjust your thinking to the type of woman you want/need. If all the women you have dated act the same way, look in a different pool. There are a lot of women who wish a man and not a boy would walk into their lives, they are out there, you are either looking in the wrong places or setting standards that keep you from seeing the right ones.
When people start to date, it's more like a game. They don't want to know who you really are and how good you are when they just met you. They might want some mystery, discover you little by little. If you tell them about your plans to make a family or being strait forward about yourself and your feelings that's what might scare them.
Girls are complicated and illogical sometimes in their partner preferences. A lot of the times they just love a**h***s. That is smth that hard to explain. Anyhow, it's proved that if you give her too much of your attention and love, she doesn't appreciate it too much.
Don't worry, eventually you'll find just the right one!
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