My Significant Other is Texting another female.. Advice Please...?

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We have been together for three years. She was in the picture before I came along. They had a one time sexual relationship.... and then she married his best friend. They were friends and would occasionally talk, no big deal. We had a falling out this past Winter, and he ended up texting her ... ALOT. From 8 am - 1 am The Next Day... This went on for Weeks and weeks... the ONLY Reason I found out about it is because we are on the same phone plan and don't have unlimited mess - so when I got the bill (and it was SKY HIGH) I checked it and sure enough, a smack in the face. We worked through it and have been going strong ever since, until I got another bill 2 weeks ago... They started texting again, although it was only from about Noon - 10 PM, and it was only One day. .... I told him how I felt about it. We have a child together. I want his time spent talking to OUR family. Anyways, that other female called me and told me ';IF I don't Like that they talk that I need to get over it';...





What do I do?! Am I wrong for feeling hurt or betrayed... should I be worried... How Can I explain to him why It's wrong.My Significant Other is Texting another female.. Advice Please...?
Bytches never learnMy Significant Other is Texting another female.. Advice Please...?
its very wrong right now its emotional cheating and it will lead further than that if it continues if you have to involve her husband do so, tell him how you feel its wrong they have a connection and he should be talking with you about the problems not her, if it doesn't stop you might have to leave.
At any degree it's CHEATING! His obligation is with no one other then you. If he loves you he will consider his selfish conduct and commence with his relationship with you. Wait him out then give him an ultimatum. And if you're married get counseling. Lean on true friends or good family members for comfort til he pulls his head out of his hind parts. Good Luck.
You don't have to explain to him. He already knows it's wrong. This business of this other girl telling you you need to get oer it is not just nervy it just plain stinks!


Don't put up with this phone pandering. If he's not cheating on you, he's thinking about it.
He sounds like he cares more for her and she sounds like she knows it.
**** that ***** up
is she still married to his best friend? how does he feel about them texting each other at these times? and your husband needs to respect your feelings. this is his friend's wife, he had a sexual relationship with her, it is innappropriate for them to be talking to each other like that. and she is very disrespectful to you. instead of her trying to be nice about it and understand your feelings she says get over it. so it seems she has no interest in being friends with you so in turn your boyfriend shouldn't talk to her.





talk to him again....tell him that she has no business calling you in regards to your relationship with him he obviously told her what you said and she is married to his best friend. i would feel betrayed. because he knows how you feel and then he went and told her what you said. i would feel disrespected by that female and i would be really angry to be honest. he needs to respect your feelings on this.





i really do wonder how your husband's best friend feels about it all. maybe you should ask your husband first and see if her husband even knows.