I am ready for sex but I'm not sure how to approach it (could use a little female advice also)?

Well I am 16 but I have been dating this girl for 4 years. She is 17. I am in love with her. And I wan't to show her ; ). Thing is, I am a little self-conscious. Not about penis size because I am 7'; with 5 1/2'; of girth but more along the lines of nervousness and possible consequences. I feel she will think I am only in it for sex and I don't want to lose her. Also, I don't exactly want to walk into a store and purchase condoms because everyone knows my family here but I can always buy ones from the guys bathroom. But I am not sure if she is ready or willing. How should I approach or present this situation.I am ready for sex but I'm not sure how to approach it (could use a little female advice also)?
I doubt you want this advise, but I'm going to give it to you anyway. 16 is way to young to be having sex, and you definatly should not be having sex out of wed-lock. If it is true love you two will be able to wait until you are old enough and mature enough to get married. Then you can seek advise about sex.I am ready for sex but I'm not sure how to approach it (could use a little female advice also)?
First, you should sit down and talk to her about it. Ask herif SHE'S ready for it. Trust me though, she won't think you're only in it for the sex


1. Because you're putting so much thought into this and you're taking you're time with it


and


2. Because you've been together for 4 years already. I think if one of yawl was already in it for the sex, it would have already happened and you'd already be broken up.


As for the condom situation: if they know you're family, screw it. You're ready for sex and who gives a **** what other people think of you anyways?


I hope I helped!
wait until she approaches the situation.


but casually ask her, her opinions on sex. see what she says.
well if you've been together for 4 years im sure she's thought it over many times too...its only natural...if it does happen just remember to relax and not rush it...its more enjoyable when you go slowly the first couple of times...and my bf is about an inch bigger than you and if she is a vigin believe me it will hurt her and she might freak out a little but reasure her that you're not gonna hurt her and if she tells you to stop you should listen to her...good luck...thats a long time to wait though...i've been with my bf 3 years and we had sex after 11months...lol
hmmm. maybe you should let your girlfriend know that you share your penis size over the internet just to get replies about it.








Besides you can show someone you love them other then having sex with them.
Awww, u r so considerate but i doubt u r ready
erm, why dont you ask her how she feels about sex? you know, talk to her! and there is nothing to be nervous about its all in your head so stop telling yourself everything will go bad and just relax.