Girl problem, am I getting played? FEMALE ADVICE?

So I like this girl and I know she dates around. She text me and was telling me how she is getting new tires and im like cool. She then said she is going to a Thai restaurant, and im like cool. She then says ';we are gonna be there for an hour'; she was practically begging me to ask her who she is with. So im like, ok cool.





She then said, so im with this guy and we are getting thai food. and im like ';are you on a date?'; and she is like ';yeah i guess its a date, some cool guy, he took me out to this thai restaurant to eat';





so im like ';cool, but what happened to staying single?'; and she said ';im still waiting for the right guy...but a girl gets lonely sometimes.... its just dinner though... he knows.';





so as a joke ';your a bad girl ma ;)'; and she said


';hahahha...your funny...stop making me feel bad and guilty';


and i said at 7:07 PM


';im not tryna make you feel guilty girl... you do what you gotta do...how come me and you never chill? haha





and she said at 7:07 PM


';bc u never ask';


(i noticed that she IMMEDIATELY answered)


I just said


';hahahaha ite';





I remember I asked her 2 times when I first met her and she kinda left me hanging, not fully because no plans were set. Anyway, did she just say that to shut me up or was she serious? Also I never blatantly asked her out on a date, I just said ';hey you wanna hang out'; and stuff like that. Since then we have gotten to know each other a lot of more and she was the first one to initiate kino with me. I always asked her out by saying ';hey im gonna be at so and so, do you wanna join me?';





I HAVEN';T asked her out once since the first 2 incidents. Every time I want to ask her to hangout or chill or whatever, I wussy out and just play it along. I was hoping she would say ';lets chill'; one day.





So ummm was this a good thing? ';bc u never ask';... like she wants me to ask her?





FEMALES what do you think? How long should I wait to ask her? I also noticed that I was hinting at her to be a little more playful and in the past few days she has become pretty playful and really cute, especially with the text messages.Girl problem, am I getting played? FEMALE ADVICE?
Yu is getin played suckaGirl problem, am I getting played? FEMALE ADVICE?
So basically you are at home alone and she is out getting her freak on. hahaha Yea you're getting played homie. lol
Simple and short. YES ask her don'tt beat around the bush. The worse she could say is no..........I know its a male ego thing but just move on if she is not interested. Ask her now ..........well at an appropriate time of coarse!!!
honestly, if she was truly interested in you, she wouldnt tell you that she was out on a date with another guy.. ya know? it seems to me like she's playing the field, and she'll end up being a heartbreaker.. sorry, but this is what im feeling..





hope this helps make your decision!
I wouldn't say shes playing you like as in the way she doesn't care about you. It sound like she doesn't really know what she wants, and trying make you a bit jealous.


You should just basically ask her straight up front to her face, and if shes still undecided then just move on, you never know she could realize whats shes missing, and get back in contact with you.



maybe she just wants you to start being real with her. if i was in her situation i would be kinda bored of waiting around for you. maybe thats why shes dating around... your not asking her so why should she say know to someone who is?... just be honest and straight with her. mind games dont get anyone anywhere...if you like the girl tell her and ask her out.... either way you'll get somewhere. quit playing these little games because not only are you playing games with her your really playing games with yourself too. the situation is really not as complicated as it seems. good luck.