Why is she doing this? NEED SOME FEMALE ADVICE PLEASE?

I like this girl a lot and she left me a lot of hints that she really wanted me to ask her out. She got me jealous, she flirted with my really hard, etc, thinking about it for a while, although she was cold at times, she gave a lot of signs. We at one point stopped talking for 2 months and when I re initiated contact I told her ';i don't know why we stopped talking and stuff but I guess i kinda started falling for you, i mean who wouldn't ;)';. I guess I made it sound like that was a before thing, and that I wasn't falling for her anymore.





So she gave me a weird response, but we started talking more and stuff and in the past 3 weeks she amped stuff a lot and i started flirting with her more with some good responses. Today she needed to pick up a book for school from me and she wanted to meet me after work. She came with another guy in his car(she got her own car) to pick it up and when she came out she was really happy to see me as usual and she sat there and we like sorta fell into a little flirting gaze, like i was spitting game and making her laugh for a good 3-4 minutes and she was just all slow, smiling, laughing,and trying to make eye contact. She then out of nowhere said ';so im going back to work, oh yeah that guy works with me'; and im like ';ok......cool, take care';.





I couldn't muster up the courage to call her but today was the first time we spoke on the phone and she has been the one to call me everytime. I just am not a phone person, but I rather felt comfortable talking to her today. Regardless, about an 2 hours after we met I text her ';heyy, do you wanna go out with me and chill this friday or saturday evening?'; and she never responded. Its been 7 hours and she is now probably sleeping, but I don't know why she didn't respond.





She keeps telling me she is shy, and im not sure what she wants me to do with that information. I try to get her to open up and sometimes she does... PLEASE LADIES, HELP!!! She does ignore my text here and there, i don't know why, but im thinking she is going to act like she never got it.Why is she doing this? NEED SOME FEMALE ADVICE PLEASE?
I really don't know. Depends what you mean by She got you jealous';? If she was flirting with other guys to get you jealous, she doesn't sound too shy to me. Hmmm.





Nobody knows this girl but you though, so think about her actions and what her intentions TRULY seem to you, if she seems to hang around other guys a lot, or it seems like she's toying with you, then don't even go there, she's not worth it and she's playing you for a fool. You can do better.





If you genuinly think she does like you and she's treated you with respect most importantly. Maybe you should just ask her out in person rather than txting her and stressing over a response. If you really want an answer, that's what you have to do isn't it?





I know it's hard, but frankly she's giving you all the signs, so if you ask her ot she's either going to say ';Yes';, which is cool and means she really did like you, or ';No'; which means she might have just been stringing you along, which hurts, but you know that means you're free to find someone else who really respects you and deserves you. It's better that you know the truth and at least you got off quite easy cos at least you weren't in a relationship.





Just ask her! :)Why is she doing this? NEED SOME FEMALE ADVICE PLEASE?
Hummmm this is a hard one. It sounds like you are both a little bit shy, maybe that't the problem. I think you probably should show some more initiative, calling her and so. The text about friday or saturday was good, don't know why she didn't respond. Keep at it and try something like that again! Good luck!!