Girls only - need female advice?

I've known this girl for 2 yrs and i've liked her 4awhile now and I know she likes me becuz...


- she would stay up late to talk to me even if we argued


- she said she missed me during the summer


- she emails me %26amp; IM's me a lot


-she actually asked me whether i'd consider her to be my g/f





Oh wait... She chose her cheating-jerk b/f over me...a girl whom I confided with , was there for her through thick %26amp; thin...%26amp; I can't believe shes going back to her ex...why do girls do this! I don't care if im ';Just friends'; with her but the fact that she lead me and lied pisses me offGirls only - need female advice?
maybe she have thought about it and i guess she realized that she loves that guy more than she loves/like you... this is better than having a relationship with both of you...maybe she doesnt want to be unfair to both/any of you so she made a decision to choose one only...';MAYBE';Girls only - need female advice?
I think you did the right thing. Now you just have to stick with it. If you want her back you have to act like this doesn't even bother you.
Obviously she wanted to be your girlfriend but you waited too long. Better luck next time.
Some women actually are afraid of a successful relationship. They are so used to being treated poorly, they think they don't deserve to be treated well.


She may also be afraid that your relationship will fail. She sounds like she loves you allot and wouldn't want to loose your friendship.
She has that guilt feeling.Just ignore her.
sounds like you need to take a break from her but to take a way a friendship over another guy is a little harsh. It is tough when you give your heart to someone and they stomp on it but remember she had that done to her too. Keep your chin up hon she is only one person with a lot of feelings. good luck
So what's your question? This is really just more of a rant of ';how dare the girl I like not like me back!';





Here's your first lesson in life and love, dude - people are not required to like you just because you like them.


Here's the second lesson - if you don't make a move, don't be surprised if someone else beats you to it. This girl was dropping hints right and left that she was into you, but you didn't do anything about it. So she went back to someone who she knew was interested in her. Even if he is a scumbag, she's willing to take a chance he might improve - because he was the guy who took a chance while you sat there and twiddled your thumbs.





So all your drama about casting her off is just drama, and kinda unfair. You didn't offer to be her boyfriend, so she foudn someone who did. Unfortunately, you really have no one to blame here except yourself. Learn the lesson, and don't make the same mistake again. If you want her, ask her out. If you don't, then don't.
well, things happen for a reason. i think you should stay away from her.





i am sure there will be someone even better that will come along.
girls are weird this way. honestly she was probably more attracted to the other guy, or they just had a chemistry the two of you didn't.
What selfish kind of friend are you? I guess you were only her friend to get with her. Otherwise no matter what stupid guys she chose you would put your personal agenda aside and be there for her. If this is how you are then eventually she will be better off
you seem like a nice enough guy. find another girl. there are pleanty out there whom will respect you for the person you are.
she probably felt lonely and you were the only guy who was around to help her out.


you cant get mad at her for going back to her ex.


love makes you do stupid things and shes gonna have to find out on her own. just be a good friend and be her friend. people make mistakes and its up to you to be the bigger person. goodluck!
I know girls like this, they want the attention and what better why to keep a guys interest well let him think you are interested in him. I know sounds stupid trust me I don't get it either and I am a female. The best way to move on is unfortunately cut off all contact email, phone, text, you know.





If she really wanted to be with you she would but she wants to keep you around in case things go bad with the boyfriend then she had a back up.





Goodluck and you deserve a lot better!!
Wow you are really taking this to seriously. You guys weren't even dating from the start. Did you ask her out? If not then you weren;t officially dating, Maybe she views you as a close friend instead of a bf. You should really talk to this girl it sounds like she really sad over this. Sure shes with her x, but why did you give up so soon. Maybe she got sick of the fact you weren;t making any moves so she went back to him or she could have some lingering feelings afterall it is her x. Give this girla little more sympathy and atleast befriend her, NExt time if you want a girl don't give up so soon.
you dont need a girl like that, she doesn't deserve you. Find someone who appreciates you and wants the good guy.





you can/should forgive her, but watch from her and know not to trust her
Look, she probably does like you, but maybe this guy that she's with was her first-love and sometimes you feel like you can't get over that. What you did wasn't a wise decision, i understand why you did it, but you shouldn't have. You should have just spoken to her about it, and then even if she said she didn't want to talk to you, you have to be persistant if you really wanted to sort it out. Telling her to shove the friendship, was not so good. Leading you on, was a bad thing to do on her part, very bad, and no one can blame you for being pissed off, but talking to her would have avoided this current situation.


What's wrong with apoligising? If she is saying sorry accept it and now is the perfect time to sort things out between you two.


You have to move on from her, maybe she's not attracted to you, and just liked to revel in the attention you gave her when she was up talking to you all night etc.


Good Luck.





xxx
leave her alone %26amp; find someone else
I think you just needed to vent. So now that you got that out, GOOD!


Go find a girl who actually cares.
Well she probably just did that because she doesn't want to be alone.. she wants to have somebody and she had you right there.... but then when her ex came along she ran back to him....
Sorry to hear that...


I really don't know waht is is that sometimes pushes us to like the ';bad'; ones.


Let her come to you and prove that she's made a mistake.








Good Luck.
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%26gt; 1. She makes eye contact and smiles at you.


%26gt; 2. She hits you softly on the arm and laughs when


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%26gt; with a big smile on


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%26gt; 10. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up


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%26gt; about you, and says


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%26gt; 1. He stares at you a lot.


%26gt; 2. He hits you A LOT. ( just play hitting )


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%26gt; to start a conversation


%26gt; with


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%26gt; with you cause you


%26gt; couldn't


%26gt; get another girl pal to go to didn't want to go


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%26gt; 6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets


%26gt; hurt in the process


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%26gt; you two talk.


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%26gt; sometimes. Which makes you


%26gt; laugh


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%26gt; 12. He remembers little things you mention in casual


%26gt; conversation.


%26gt; 13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.


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