Were completely monogomous, deeply in love, and live together. She wan'ts to get married as soon as possible and i know that starting a family will be shortly after but im not ready and it would be unfair to bring a child into this world when it wouldn't be able to have the best of everything.
Do i tell her no more sex until it's with a condom? Any advice ladiesNeed some female advice...?
Put that hefer on birth control. Yall are crazy! What if she gets preggers with triplets what you gonna do then? She's just manipulating you, because guys dont put up a fight when it come to sex. But you better starting fighting. B/c yall arent being safe and will end up sorry.Need some female advice...?
no dont tell her that... try to be sweet and mature and take control.. :) like tell her...that if you would want a kid and it will be defenitely with her but you wanted to get married first and get a good job and save money for kids... tell her you wanted a lot of kids from her...:) and be sweet.. and tell her...';baby if we have a kid i wanted you to stay with the kids and not work'; oh thats lovely...! so thats why you have to plan it good :) and be safe for now.... and try telling her too in a sweet way...';i dont want you to be fat/chubby on your wedding gown'; lol.. and surely if baby comes first we do women gained alot of weight l.o.l.......
so its all about talking it over with her.. but be sensitive with her you dont want to hurt her feelings.
reagarding marriage, if you are not ready. tell her straight what holding you off.. :) trust me.. there no better than honesty
tell her how you feel, that you aren't ready for that. she might get offended, but if she really loves you, she'll understand... and tell her nicely....
good luck
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